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Posted Tue, 08/18/2009 - 08:12 — secret life advice
Francia and Megan offer advice. Francia Raisa and Megan Park give their viewpoint to fan questions about love and life.
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Oh I love how u do this blogs because it does help people and don't worry my feet r small to.
go secret life can't wait tell back on in Jan.!!!!
jackie
hey Megan & Francia I need help see My best friend who went to elementary school moved like in the 2nd grade & I just found out like 3 weeks ago that he goes to my school then we got to catch up at memories & old times but now I've asked him out & he said no only because he just thought of me as a friend so does that mean he doesn't like me or does that mean he just wants to be friends?
hey i need some help. ok one of my friends needs serious help cuz she been smoking drinkin and having sex alot and she only 13 or 14. she on the volleyball team and im trying to get her help she needs but she refuses. she bee pregnant onse or twice and im telling u she needs help. she getting out of control!!!!!!!!!!!!!!wat should i do
melody
My feet are weird one day i'll be size 9 1/2 then another day they'll be 4 1/2 don't worry Francia my feet are Jacked up!
This guy that I dated for 3 years is the father of my daughter...but after she was born he decided to say that it wasnt his. Now all of a sudden he wants to be in her life and he wants me to marry him. But i worry that once i marry him he will try to control me and then divorce me so that he can get custody of my daughter. What should i do...I could really use some advice
mmmm.... no way hunny! no guy does that and can come back and be like ok i want you! no way. that's just their first step to taking control over you. But first, let the decision be up to your daughter (if she's old enough 10 or older) if not, aggree to let him visit or take her somewhere first but you must be there. If he wants to be in her life and isn't bad news like alcoholic or drug addict or anything, i don't see why not. Just let it start there. who knows, MABIE, down the road, you'll find that you 2 mabie were ment to be? But for now, if he wants to be in her life, let him.
You just got free counceling help, and you didn't have to pay $100.00 bucks for a seccisson!!! lol 
Well first of all he does not need to be back in your life. if he tries to control you he could hurt you. He does not love you he wants everyone to know that he got married after his girlfriend had their baby and after he left his girlfriend and his baby he came back asking for forgiveiness and for her hand in marriage i think you should stay single and go for child support.
TO FRANCIA:
Dont worrrryyy ! My feet shrink too.
But it's because of the weather.
Your feet get smaller in the winter cuz its cold.
That's why when we get a bump, we put ice on it.
Hope I helped (:
yourr cooool, byee !
To Megan
Loveeee your shoes,
i do that shoelace chucks thing too ahah.
Francia: Don't worry about it my feet shrunk too...I was an 8.5 and now I'm a 7 lol
Hey Francia and Megan!
I love your blogs- I wish there we more people out there like Grace and even with Adrian always wanting sex, she has definately evolved
Anyways, Megan, I love your shoes. They look very cool! I want to try them
Francia, I am 15 and I am a little taller than my mom, 5.4. My shoe size has been 4-5 for the past 4 years I'd say. I don't think they are growing anyways. Probably just genetics. But also, everyone shrinks like an inch when they get older.. so maybe that includes feet? good luck!
hey... omg i love the blog well i have a question?
i have been goin out wit a guy 4 a year and 7 months but i dnt feel the same about him no more ? wat should i do ??? wat kan u guyz as friend give mi as advise?
iN lOvE wIt RaPhAeL
There is this guy that I have a crush on (more an obsession really) , but he is like really popular
. Me on the other hand, am so unpopular they have to make a new category just for me called "non-existance." It's not that people don't like me, it's just that they don't consider me a friend or an enemy. I'm just "there 
." Anyway, I went to a summer band camp with him (does that sound familiar 
) and I met him there. I've made a fool of myself in front of him, and I'm getting tired of it. Should I tell him I like him or should I give up now? If you have any other suggestions I would appreciate that too.
P.S. He doesn't go to my school but I see him often at my church. That might make my situation worse...
To Beatrice-
My love flew like a butterfly
Until death swooped down like a bat
As the Emma Montana McElroy said:
"That's the end of that." - By-Lemony Snicket
wow. this sounds like me. but i have like every single class with the guy. i feel your pain. lol.
-if u live forever what do u live for?
first of all i just wanna say that i LOOOVE your blogs and i think you should do them every week even when the show is off until then next season(:
second, omg francia when i was 11 i was an 8 and now im 14 and my size shoe is a 5!!! so it happenss all the time.
third, i love what you did w/ your chucks, megan(: i do that to mine now! and everyone gives me compliments.
ok heres my question:
my boy friend and i just broke up and im really sad, even though we werent that close. since im only 14 we didnt do anything just texted xD haha. and he found another girl right after we broke up and its making me super jealous!!!! is that normal? and i dont wanna find another guy but all my friends want me to make him jealous but i dont want to. but i am... jealous of him!
Ok i like this one guy back in 8th grade and no that we started high school this year i never rele see him that much. scince my high school is a regional school in high school they allow people from out of the 4 towns to come there instead of their towns high school. so now that there is lot of cute guys that i have some feeling that they might like me. but b4 all the new guys came i had this weird feeling that he might have liked me. now we are in high school i never see him any more i dont know if i should stop trying to like him or if i should i find some one new to like? im sooo confused help me pleazzz!!!!!!!
Lindsay C.
i love your shoes!
they are cute and look great on you!
I guess its just genetics? And you'll shirk an inch or so sometime in your life so no worries 
I'm almost 15 and have been shoe size 4 for the past 3 years or so. i do fit into some 5's though
Hey, guys. I've been friends with this one guy for a really long time. He's one of my closest, actually. He's one of the most interesting people I know. he's really respectful, funny, caring and all that jazz. I think, overtime, I've developed a crush on him. I feel, if we did start dating and, for some reason, break up, it would ruin our friendship. I truly value his. I don't know what to do about it. Help me out, sil vous plait!
I definetly know what you mean, I have a friend like that too and the same worry because I want him to be my forever love, I never want to lose him. I totally know what you mean
<3Ricky + Adrian<3 Forever!
Hey Megan & Francia,
First off I wanna start off by saying that both of you are GORGEOUS! I wish that I looked like you guys! Oh and Francia, When I was little I wore a size 9-10 shoe...my feet were huge! Now I'm 18 and I wear an 8 1/2 which is normal...so dont sweat it girl lol. And Megan...I LOVED WHAT YOU DID WITH YOUR CHUCKS! Deff. Adorable! Ok so here's my question:
I was with the same guy for 2 years and 11 months, we were madly in love and the couple that everyone enveyd. After I graduated he told my cousin that he knew when he was going to ask me to marry him and was looking at rings. Everything seemed sooo perfect. Well I went on Vacation with my family and while I was away we talked on the phone and he kept telling me to hurry home and that he missed me. Well the day I got home was our 2 year and 11 month anniversary and the day after it, he dumped me
! Well right after we broke up he started hanging out with another girl....they "say" they're just friends, but I think he cheated on me while I was on vacation 
! I was heartbroken but i'm doing a lot better and trying to move on with my life....but I've made some stupid decisions because i dont even care about anything anymore....Do you guys think he cheated on me? How can I get over him?
Heyy francia and megan i really need your help and you girls out there who are willing to give me the help. Ok it might sound stupid
but.. I just broke up with my boyfriend because he moved, but b4 him was another guy who none of my friends like or my parents but i really really like him and he really really likes me 
and i dont know what to do because i dont want my parents to flip out on me and i really dont want to lose my friends.... WHAT SHOULD I DO?? 
Georgia Radtke
this might be hard but don't defy your parents they know whats best for you
Love Christian
i agree strangly enough they seem to know who is totally wrong for you
Heyy francia and megan i really need your help and you girls out there who are willing to give me the help. Ok it might sound stupid
but.. I just broke up with my boyfriend because he moved, but b4 him was another guy who none of my friends like or my parents but i really really like him and he really really likes me 
and i dont know what to do because i dont want my parents to flip out on me and i really dont want to lose my friends.... WHAT SHOULD I DO?? 
Georgia Radtke
Heyy francia and megan i really need your help and you girls out there who are willing to give me the help. Ok it might sound stupid
but.. I just broke up with my boyfriend because he moved, but b4 him was another guy who none of my friends like or my parents but i really really like him and he really really likes me 
and i dont know what to do because i dont want my parents to flip out on me and i really dont want to lose my friends.... WHAT SHOULD I DO?? 
Georgia Radtke
Hey guys! I could really use some advice. It may be be kinda lengthy, so apologies ahead of time
I've been best friends with this girl since kindergarten. And, as bad as this sounds, I never really noticed that she has been harrassing me ever since. I never found this out until maybe the 5th grade
She basically puts down whatever idea I have for a group project, makes fun of me WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS behind my back, she'd make me look like the bad guy if we argued over boys or something stupid like that, and, she has put down my parents on one or two occasions. So, one day last year i get fed up and wrote her a note, as I was too scared to stand up to her in person. 
About two days later we finally talked, and she made me tha bad guy (or girl, teehee 
) again. About a week later, I finally stood up to her in person. But we had some peer leadership responsibilities to do before school over the past few days, and she says she'll change her ways. However, I think she's turning a couple of my friends against me already from the note. And everytime i think she has changed, she never has! And I really, really, REALLY don't wanna be friends with her anymore, as bad as that sounds. How should I handle this situation, or even better, tell her hat I don't want to even be her friend.
<3Megs
hey francia & megan, ok so i need advice, i went out with my ex boyfriend for six months, we started going out in october of 2007 & it was an on & off relationship, like we went out 8 times, he was my first real boyfriend and i fell in love with him, i know it's love because i still miss him & i never felt like that for any other boy, i went out with a few boys after him & i still cant forget about him. i want to go back out with him but we don't talk to eachother because his sister was my best friend but since we're not in the same class anymore we kind of grew apart, what should i do?
-tEAM AMy & RiCky
omg i was in the same stitation too. my ex boyfriend was my friend brother and guess what im going out with his cuz even though i still have feelings for my ex. the best you can do do nothing or write a list of who should you be with. i done that and i end up with my boyfriend i dating right now cuz he was the right person for me. well i hope this helps
melody
okkay ihey girlies so i have a problem and maybe you guys can give me some advice please! so i have a friend and she has been going out with her boifriend for 2 years he really loves her and she loves him too but the only thing is shes really INSECURE so she told me she told her boyfriend she was pregnant and he belives it and he had explained to his family and went through so much for nothing because shes NOT even pregnant! suppously him and his family thinks her family knows and they dont and he changed so much for her i see4 them in school and it hurts me so much too see himm kiss her belly and tell everyones shes 4 months pregnant he told me after four months of her being "pregnant" he hasnt went to any docter appointments or seen any pichures she dont want to tell him the truth because he will go crazy and i wanna be a friend & help i dont know what to tell her! i need help? any advice?
you down for da cruise?!
whoa why would she do that!? i feel sorry for you and your "best friend
" boyfriend
she went waaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy to far!!!!!!!!
i'm with crazy~->>
ok first of all tell ur "best friend" to tell him the truth. she shouldnt be joking things like that. is not very nice to trick him like that. tell her that if she doesnt tell him the truth then you will.
melody
Hi Francia and Megan!
well i qot a problem. . .
see i've been qoin out wid mah boyfriend for 1 year nd 3 months nd we were on & off like 9 times. and we havent qone back out for 2 months so i think we arent qoin to be together no more. nd i still love him and i miss him soo much. and i lost my virginity to him so i dnt know wat to do. any help ! plzz
tatiana reyes
Dear Francia & Megan,
my life is a total mess i work all the time like am an maid in this house and i never get some time for myself or my friends and am just 15 years old and am the oldest out of the six of us, i know being the oldest u have responsibiltys but am starting to think that i have too much as a child my age, and am so fed up of it i dont talk to my dad about this because am scared i dont know why thow, but please give me some advice on what to do and how to talk to my dad
o.harmer
I think you girls give great advice and its very relatable to everyone. By the way Megan - your new shoe way, I'm totally digging it and everyone asks me wear I got those shoes. It's crazy! you just roll over the top. Plus I love you two girls; on screen and off. And I can't wait to see Franica in the new movie of the Cutting Edge - you were so much fun to watch in the last one!!!
Yeah ur feet do shrink i went to from a size 8 in womens to a size 5 in girls
~*TH3B3ST3V3R*~
Yeah ur feet do shrink i went to from a size 8 in womens to a size 5 in girls
~*TH3B3ST3V3R*~
how do we ask for advice on here?
ok so i like this guy but idk if he likes me 2 nd he is a teacher at my karate he isnt old but he is young uh idk bout this nd i dnt know wht it means ok so i was gettin my stripe for my blue belt nd i was tha last one 2 leave tha room nd he said "good job sweetie" nd i didnt say good job 2 other ppl that was gettin a stripe nd that was tha first time he saw me idk wht is means but im thinkin he likes me 2 but idk i really need adivce from this i really do need it its like killing me 2 know
Ricky+Amy+John=love and familia (means family in spainsh)
hey u gals give amazing advice!!!
so no worries 
ya haha its true your feet actually do shrink that happened to my mom not to long ago
i have a bit of a problem and i was hoping that i could get some advice
i have this friend who i have know for a long time but she has changed a lot into a not so good person
she isn't happy with herself and keeps on getting in fights with people for no reason at all. This bugs me because that is not the type of person i am but i am too ashamed to tell her i don't really want to hang out with her if she is going to be like that
should i tell her or just let it be?
-britt X)
omg i wish i can meet ya!!
ok so i need advice, i went out with my ex boyfriend for six months, we started going out in october of 2007 & it was an on & off relationship, like we went out 8 times, he was my first real boyfriend and i fell in love with him, i know it's love because i still miss him & i never felt like that for anybody else, i went out with a few boys after him & i still cant forget about him. i want to go back out with him but we don't talk to eachother because his sister was my best friend but since we're not in the same class anymore we kind of grew apart, what should i do?
(everyone feel free to help me]
-tEAM AMy & RiCky
Ok guyssss. I have a questionnn.
Myyy boyfranddd and i just broke up and im reallyyyy sad. is that normal?? i mean im onlyyy 14 and we werent that closeee. But he found anotherrr girl and i cant find anotherrr guyyy and uhhhh im so depressed ):
Hi Francia!
My feet shrunk too! So, it's not abnormal!
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well i gave my virginity away to my bf we have been together longer than a year ad i ant to telll him i dnt wat sex anymore 4 a while how d i tell im 16
♥mika♥
♥amy & ricky♥
okay. i have a boyfriend but he has a baby so yeah..all the drama adrain goes through on the show.. i go through at home...i just want to know how i should hadle this situation. because i do like this guy alot...
Hi,
i want to talk to this guy that i really like but i dont want to make a mistake. What should i say?
OMGGG!!!! My feet shrunk too. When I was 13 I wore a size 8 and now Im 18 and I wear a size 5!!!!!!!
My feet shrunk too!! when I was 12 I wore a 7 1/2 now i'm 19 and wear a 5 in kids! I also wear my chucks like that!
my feet shrunk 2 when i was 13 i went from a 8 to a 7 and im almost 16 now and im almost a 10 and a half i wish my feet would shrink lmao anyways so im one of those kids who goes out with her friends and does stuff im not subposta do and then i got somthing wrong with me and doc dont kno what it is but now i dont do those things i use to do and my friends think im making up whats wrong with me so i dont drink or smoke and they are good friends but they think im lieing and i have no proof to tell them im not idk what 2 do help plez
My best friend(its a guy) named Jake is starting to act all flirty lately and comes over more frequently. I really don't want to be more than friends and I've told him that. But he doesn't get the picture. I don't want to ruin this relationship because he's like my little brother. But sometimes he goes to far. What should I do?
Hi Francia and Megan!
Ok, so i need help! My life is a lot like grace bowman's, but i am a little younger then her. I am a christian, and a pastors kid, so people at my school expect me to not do anything bad. I don't like it at my school anymore because last year i was part of the popular group then right before school ended they kicked me out. so now i don't have many friends. I just like all the other girls at my school, i just don't sware or date. I was homeschooled until sixth grade, and now i go part-time at my school. (some people think i am a freak because of that.) I am really scared of going back to school next month. Any help please???????