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Posted Tue, 01/06/2009 - 09:30 — The Secret Life...
Be part of the "Secret Life" wedding party! Get into the nuptial spirit.
If you saw the season premiere of "The Secret Life of The American Teenager" last night, you know that, yes! Ben and Amy totally tied the knot before an audience of their schoolmates. It may not have been the most romantic thing ever, but it was super-sweet. (if you didn't see the wedding, go watch the episode!)
What do you wish for Ben and Amy in their marriage? Write it in the guest book, below. And what would you like to give them as a wedding gift?
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ben and amy for life
I totally agree with you tay... Ben is such a sweet nice guy who loves Amy no matter what happens. The only reason why ricky hooked up with Amy is because no one else would, ha.
Ben and Amy 4ever!!.
I think at some point in the season BEn and Amy will break up tho. Amy will go out with ricky and then realize that she still loves ben.
BEn and Amy!!
<3 Ben and Amy <3
Mrs. Amy Boykevich
*Bella and Edward* + Renesmee
Ben and Amy= Bamy
Bamy= Baby
Baby= John Boykevich-Jurguens
i think dat amy should not have married ben cuz ben she does know what to do so she just took da frist door n didnt see the other doors n um i think ricky well turn to someone who cares. he want to take of the baby . i think
N3LLY <3 U! BUT NOT U HAHAHA
Congrats Ben and Amy! I have to admit, I wasn't sure the wedding would really happen, but hey fake ids, the dude at the church bought it. Can't wait to see what's in store next for the two newlyweds.
ok everyone is saying that amy should be with ricky cause hes the father..well ricky can still be part of his babys life without being together with amy..now ben is incredibly sweet and he wants to take care of her and help her raise the baby..that is so wonderful of him..most guys dump a girl when they find out shes pregnant even if it IS their baby so everyone stop hating on ben
Welcome to the Earth, John Juergens
Why would Ricky even want to go to the wedding.The mother of his baby is getting married and obviously not to him,but she should be.What does she even seee in Ben...??
well first Ben loves Amy and has respect for her he loves her so much he fight for her respect and their love and if Amy don't see that she must have love problems and when do she tell Ashley that she don't love Ben what episode
addicted to amy A.K.A Shailene Woodley
Hopefully that Ben will be a good husband to Amy and helps her with the baby.
Ricky's gonna change to a better man..... get over it ben loverss =] and soon it will be Ricky and Amy together haha yesssssss.
it wouldnt make sense if Ricky never changed his bad ways anyway.
[RICKY AND AMY!] <3
Congrats to Amy and Ben although I'm still in shock I hope everything really does work out for them.
Okayy! like everyone, i just like need to say this AMY AND RICKY should NEVER get together. wouldnt you want her to be with someone who would love her and her baby? like seriously!!! so what if Ricky got her preg? i mean OBVIOUSLY he is not RESPONSIBLE! Amy her self isnt responsible as it is. why would u want another irresponsible person to raise the baby.! ben knows what he is doing.
Amy and Ben=
Amy and Ricky=
that is so true!!! LAuren's dad (the shrink dude) is so right when he talks with ricky.
Ricky
Ben
BEn and Amy
Ricky and Amy
<3 Ben and Amy <3
Mrs. Amy Boykevich
*Bella and Edward* + Renesmee
Ben and Amy= Bamy
Bamy= Baby
Baby= John Boykevich-Jurguens
Ok i have one question for all those peeps who think that amy should be with ricky n not ben! WHY?!? everybody keeps saying amy+ricky, wtf would u want them together kno1 has givin a good answer besides "oh it's his baby" u should come up with more ideas than that we all kno it's his duh! Besides ricky would still have sex wit adrian even if he was with amy n he would still want to get with Grace so i would jus want to kno what all u ricky+amy lovers have against ben(other than it's ricky baby), i dnt get y u would want them together! well lookin forward to read what u write! ttyl---peace
xX Stags89 Xx
Ben will be a good husband as soon as he gets over the fact that Amy needs to talk to Ricky about the baby. It isn't sharing. I'm sure Amy cares about him in a sence, 'cuz hes the father of her baby. Ricky was probally just hugging her 'cuz he finally became responsible.
i totally agree ben just has to accept the fact that it IS rickys baby and telling amy he doesnt want her talking to him is just going to push her away..amy and ricky were probably just hugging because theyre scared about what to do with their baby..but amy and ben SHOULD be together
Welcome to the Earth, John Juergens
Yeah, Ben does need to back off a bit, cuz when he married Amy, he knew she was going to have to have some kind of relationship with Ricky because of the baby. But Ben still oves Amy no matter what. They both wanted to get married, and congrats! they did!!
Ben and AMy all the way!
<3 Ben and Amy <3
Mrs. Amy Boykevich
*Bella and Edward* + Renesmee
Ben and Amy= Bamy
Bamy= Baby
Baby= John Boykevich-Jurguens
i agree with you. i cant wait for next weeks eposide:)
Feliciaaa
I Agree with you. I'm Very happy that amy and ben got married, but ben didnt look like he was ready though. I think amy is going to break up with ben and go out with ricky. I hope she doesnt, i hope she stays with ben though. I cant wait for next weeks episode.
Feliciaaa
I think that they make such a cute couple. Ben really loves Amy and I think Amy cares a lot about him but I don't think she has the same feelings for him as he does for her. It almost seems like she is using him in this episode. I honestly don't think the marriage will last because they are too young, although I hope they stay together and she doesn't go with Ricky. Ricky does need to have a say in some of the babies life though but technically it is Amy's decision. Most likely Ben and Amy's parents won't approve of the marriage anyways and because they are underage, the marriage won't be valid anyhow.
it may not be legal, but as Donavin (the gay guy) tells George, "A marrige is more that a piece of paper, it's a commitment" and AMy and BEn are in a commited relationship because they love each other.
<3 Ben and Amy <3
Mrs. Amy Boykevich
*Bella and Edward* + Renesmee
Ben and Amy= Bamy
Bamy= Baby
Baby= John Boykevich-Jurguens
I AM A 33 YEAR OLD MOTHER OF A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO IS NOW IN HIGH SCHOOL, AND I'M SURE IF U GUYS DO UR MATH U WOULD COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I TO WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL WHEN I GAVE BIRTH TO MY DAUGHTER. THIS SHOW IS SO AWESOME BECAUSE ITS FOCUSED ON THE REALITY THAT IT ONLY TAKES ONE TIME TO GET PREGNANT. I AM SO GRATEFULL TO ABC FAMILY FOR CREATING THIS SHOW BECAUSE THE STORY LINE IS NOT MAKE BELIEVE, THIS TRUELY DOES HAPPEN AND IN MY COMMUNITY IT HAPPENS MORE OFTEN THAN IN UPPER MIDDLE CLASS AREAS. MY DAUGHTER AND MYSELF BOTH LOVE THIS SHOW AND WE'RE SO GLAD THAT THE NEW SEASON STARTED...ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U TO ABC FAMILY, AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.....
I am a 31 yr old mother of a soon to be 15 yr old step daughter. I have very little influence over her since we have her on weekends. But believe me I have talked to her about sex. I know she has a boyfriend but doenst tell us. She lives with her mother and she gets to do whatever she wants. That is why she doesnt want to come here more often. I have a bad feeling that she will end up pregnant. Unlike Amys situation my daughter has someone to talk to she just chooses not to. Being a rebel is not a good thing. She says she has dreams of going to U of I. That is great but getting pregnant will change all that and dont say it wont. Many teens, my friends included, get pregnant in high school and do nothing. They dont go to college. They get jobs, get on welfare or quit school and live with friends or family. That is not what any girl would want for a life. And when i say girl i mean girl. 15 yr old boys dont stick around like Ben is. Especially if the kid is not theirs. That is the dumbest plot ive ever seen. And these parents are so blah about everything. And since when is sex the only thing teens do. How about sports, dances, drugs, alcohol, cheating on tests, getting a job, computers, and having parties. When are they going to tackle these things too.
i dont think that ben really wanted to get married yet, but he agreed to because he wanted amy to be happy. but ben can always make the situation work, even if it means that he has to do something drastic. whatever it is, i dont think they need luck. they can solve problems together
BOO I DONT CONGRATULATE YOU!
HAHA AMYS GONNA LEAVE BEN FOR RICKY ANYWAYS!
no way!! Amy is not going to leave Ben. And if she does, it will only be for a bit.
<3 Ben and Amy <3
Mrs. Amy Boykevich
*Bella and Edward* + Renesmee
Ben and Amy= Bamy
Bamy= Baby
Baby= John Boykevich-Jurguens
I think that they were wrong to get married because.......
1. They are under aged
2. They should have told their parents
3. Amy should marry Ricky because he is the father after all
4. Ben is so not cute (unlike Ricky)
5. They could be making the biggest mistake of their lives
But that is just my opinion. I LUV THIS SHOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Luv Secret Life~
yes you are right. amy should be with ricky because it is rickys baby anyway. any ways ricky is hot.
hey, don't judge people by their looks!!! Ben is sweet inside even though he may not be the best looking guy on earth. And that is so stereotypical and wrong that Amy should be with Ricky just cuz he's the father.
<3 Ben and Amy <3
Mrs. Amy Boykevich
*Bella and Edward* + Renesmee
Ben and Amy= Bamy
Bamy= Baby
Baby= John Boykevich-Jurguens
In my opinion, Ben and Amy are waaaaay to young to be getting married. I'm sorry, but teenagers (and some ad ults too) don't really know that much about real love. I know a lot of you are going to disagree with me, but I'm sorry. I'm a teen too and I know most people think that they're in love but really they're not. Trust me. Plus, they're going against all the rules. Amy is really starting to become a rebel. hahaha! They should really talk to their parents about this. Plus, I totally agree with Amy's mom in the beginning of the episode. If Amy is going to keep the baby, she has to understand that it's not going to be just fun and games, there are going to be hard times too. She has to pay for her own bills, take care of her own baby, and balance everything else at the same time. If she can't, she should really put the baby up for adoption. I read somewhere that most teenage mothers who keep their children end up homeless or begin to live in poverty. Whereas, if the baby had been adopted by a loving, caring, wonderfully accepting family that is eager to take care of the child in good hands, the child would have a better childhood. But anyway, I LOVE the secret life!! OMG!
<3
ok ben loves amy. ricky is nothing but a player.
jeremy
hmmm......I don't agree with the wedding I think they are kind of rushing things.....although I do hope they stay together now I think they should have waited to get married, they haven't known each other that long and neither of them have ever dated before, well besides each other but how do they know they are right for each other. I guess maybe when you are truly in love you would just know but I still feel like they should have waited. I don't like Ricky.....he is so mean and I don't think he should have spread the word about the wedding....Amy and Ben just wanted it to be them and their witnesses and I think Ricky acted like a jerk but telling people and spreading the word. Ugh I still absolutely LOVE this show and I wish they gave you more info and showed it in more detail.....kind of like daytime soaps....they build up in suspense and drag things out so you get excited for them.....I wish they did that with this show.....I absolutely love this show and I wish it was on more often!!!! Oh and if I attended their wedding I probably would get them some baby stuff and also something that Ben and Amy could use to because it isn't a baby shower it was a wedding......lol Maybe something for like Ben's room or something you know if they moved in together in Ben's house.....hmmmm I'm not sure that is actually a tough question.....
Just wanted to say congratulations to Ben and Amy. The love and devotion they have for each other is adorable. And it's too bad there are not more Ben's in the world when there is a teen pregnancy. Most men just run the other way in real life. But, good for them, they deserve each other and hope to see them stay together.
OMG THEY GOT MARRIED!!! I love this show is the best. I wanted them to get married. But on the future previews it shows her hugging ricky what is up with that. It would suck if they got a divorce srry yall but i am a helpless romantic i want them to be together!
I loved this episode! For once someone went through with eloping on tv, not that i think that it was the best decision, but it made things exciting. Although I think it was the best decision for Ben & Amy. They really do love each other! I just hope Amy does not give Ben up for Ricky! Ricky obviously does not love Amy, Grace, or Adrien. My sister and I just think he feels obligated. But Ben really does love Amy. I just died when Ben kissed Amy just after getting married, it was so cute. Ben is so sweet! There are no words to describe how sweet, and adorable Ben is! Go Team Ben!
I agree with you......I think there should be more people or guys like Ben who actually care more about who they are dating and love for who you are no matter how big of a mistake you made.....how many guys do you know would still go out with you and care about you if they found out you were pregnant......Ben is such a sweetheart!
happy wedding lets hope you guys are as in "love" as you were before
I think that it's awesome that Ben and Amy finally got married. They followed their hearts and did what felt right. I hope that they don't have to get it annulled where their parents find out what they did. But even if that happens they will still remain as madly in love as they were before they actually decided to get married. Hopefully once the baby comes they will be supportive of one another and do what they need to do together to raise a happy healthy baby,
xoxo casey <3
Doing what feels right isn't always the right thing to do. They should have waited to get married because gettting married at 15 is really stupid even if you do love that person. Its even worse when you don't have parents consent. Although there is a chance for something like this to work out it probably won't.
P.S. And I totally agree with xmaryyyy.
Ok, so Amy and Ben ARE way cute, but last night's episode was yawn-worthy. I mean... It could've been interesting. Someone could have objected, a parent could have barged in. Idk. I thought it was pretty boring. The highlight was Alice's outfit (she looked amazing!) and her moment with Jack. Otherwise, blah. But I'm glad it's back and I'm excited for next week's and the following ones
Ok what would have been yawn worthy was if someone actually objected. I watch show after show, and the same thing happens, someone barges in and stops the wedding. Or the bride or groom decide that what they are doing isn't the best. So when I saw this I was totally surprised. This episode was so exciting to me that I got butterflies.
yeah i totally know what your talking about, some of my friends that watch the show saw the previews and said stuff like OH MY GOD THEYRE GETTING MARRIED and i kept saying NO THEYRE not because thats how it always ends on the shows, they chicken out. so when they actually went through with it i could hardly believe it. i started jumping up and down and screaming. scared the hell outa my parents
Welcome to the Earth, John Juergens
i personally kind of want ricky and amy to go out together. ben is a sweet guy, but he's a little like weird and too sweet. and he's overprotective. and he always tries to act like amy's baby is his. i definitley don't think they should have got married. but anyways, i loveee this show. and from the preview for the whole season, it looks soooooooo gooood. i can't waittt
k well, peacee.
the secret life of the american teengaer forever<3
amy & ricky together foreverrrrrrr <3
I really want to see the good girl with the bad guy. Plus if Ricky wants to be in the baby's life then let him be in it because it is not just Amy's baby. I mean she did have sex with him and he is the father of the baby.
!!!!gOoD gIrL*bAd GuY aKa AmY*rIcKy!!!!
Well I'm glad they got married! although i'n not so sure it's a legal one due to the fake IDs lol. but they should've thought more into it before doing it,like whre are they gonna live? they have no money so they need jobs but they're still in school and part-time pay may not be enough for moths rent on an appartment,they need money for a babysitter cuz Amy's Mom was right..I totally agreed with her. now it's Amy's responsabilty to take care of her baby and it was selfish of her to think her Mom would take care of the baby everyday,her Mom has a life too you know!! although they could live at Ben's house for awhile...just long enough to get on their feet. I'm curious to see the rest of this season.............
Jessie
i pretty sure that if their parents say that the marriage is anulled then amy and ben wont have any say in it since they used false ids...so technically they arent really married i dont think
Welcome to the Earth, John Juergens
tara clark love's someone
omg! i love these guys! i feel like they are my own brothers and sisters! i love watching every week to see what they have new going on! i have seen the sneak peek for next weeks show and am very curious! i really hope amy doesnt dump ben after they just got married and leave him for ricky! i cant wait!
I really want amy to give ricky a chance because she is learning everything that he has went through! i think its best for their baby...i agree with ricky and i think that he is changing his act and ben is too girly for amy!! his too whiny!!! RICKY AND AMY ALICE AND JACK!!!