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ABC Family: The Secret Life of the American Teenager sneak peek 1: 'par for the course'

sneak peek 1: 'par for the course'

sneak peek 1: 'par for the course'

Par For The Course Sneak Peek 1

Get an early look at what's next on "Secret Life."

Every week, you get five juicy sneak peeks at the next episode of "The Secret Life of The American Teenager." So watch today's clip, tell us what you think in the comments section (below), and tell your friends they can see it too.

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discuss (119) Comments

emilychica1027's picture

Okay seriously i dont think anyone deserves the b word in this show. amy is a new mother and she has a lot of stress. i can see where ben is coming from but amy needs space. ben is always too clingy and controlling. ok so amy isnt showing a lot of love towards him right now, but if he would back off a little she would miss him and realize she needs him in her life. they just need to talk. amy needs to understand that ben and her have not made out in a long time and he misses that but he needs to understand that she is just being careful and does not want to get preggars again. they need communication. and grace is pushing everyone away right now but jack needs to stand by her because one day she will need a good friend and he should be there. she just is grieving. UGH! SO MUCH DRAMA!!! Sticking out tongue

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tonybologna's picture

ok everyone. leave grace alone. her dad died while she was in a fight with him about her having sex. of course she is going to feel like she caused it! and shes really hurting right now so of course she is going to blame jack because she felt like the only way to keep him was by sleeping with him. she felt pressured into sex because she wanted to keep him. im sure many girls have felt the same thing but they didnt have their dad die two minutes later. its a hard thing for her to accept.
i do not think she killed him at all. if god punishes people who have sex before marriage 80% of the population would be in big trouble. so all of you who think that she did kill him need to think really hard about what it is youre trying to make everyone else believe.
and the other thing for those who say the first time cant be great i say thats complete bs. if the mood is right and the guys really sweet about things can be great. you can really enjoy yourself.
all that said i do not think grace should have had sex. she was a good example for the girls who wanted to stay virgins til marriage. but dont get mad at her...blame the writers! remember them? the ones writing everything they do or say. theyre the ones messing up the show not grace

taytaytaytaytaytaytaytaytaytaytaytay's picture

bem and amy belong together

livelaughlove_'s picture

RICKY and Amy? Smiling

irots's picture

first note, everyone has to realizes thats its a "TV SHOW" with "teenagers" in it so YES there is going to be drama after drama in it and CHANGES... Grace is being that way because she is going back to everything she knows "OH I HAD SEX, SHOULDN'T HAVE, NOW I'M BEING PUNISHED FOR IT" things in this show are just starting out... WITH A BANG I must say, but Its going to get harder before it gets better...I LOVE THIS SHOW don't get mean wrong I love every episode even if its bad or doesn't end the way we want it too, They are all good.. "FOR Calibratt16 I'M SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU.. I have a 2 year old plus I'm married and I'm only 23 I couldn't handle if something happened to my life like that I'm sorry once again" FOR THE SHOW, everything will change in time but not back to the way people want it too... SO JUST WATCH IT AND ENJOY IT!!!

Rachie Roo

beachgirl94's picture

ok i think that Grace is being such a dumbo about the whole thing. I feel so bad for Jack. Just because they had sex doesn't mean that they are the ones that killed her father. That could have happened to anyone. And all Jack wants to do is try to get Grace back to normal, but Grace is blaming everything that happened on her! But seriously Grace snap out of it:(

kylexylover122's picture

I honestly think maybe if her dad and her werent arguing maybe she wouldnt blame herself, or atleast not as much. She's like totally convinsed that its her fault and Jack's fault which it isnt!!!! Sad Sad

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kylexylover122's picture

When Tom said can you bring back my dad, I was like aww. I felt bad for him, and its not Grace or Jack's falt. He asked her if she was sure, she said yes. And he DIDNT talk her into having sex with him, she made the choice on her own. Sad Sad

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TaylorRenee93000's picture

I totally understand where Grace is coming from. She is very young and she just lost her father suddenly. Not to mention that they were in a huge fight about her having sex with Jack and then while she has sex he dies. I'm not saying that killed him because she definetly didn't, but I'm just saying I know why she would feel like that. People need to stop calling her a b**** because she is just trying to grieve, her behavior is somewhat normal. She also, however, needs to stop and think about the fact that Jack got what he wanted from her and is still there trying to console her. He didn't bail like a normal teenage guy would have. I think he truly loves her and she needs to come to that realization and let him be there for her. As for Amy...I don't think she's being a b**** at all. She is a teenager trying to balance all these things that a normal teenager wouldn't have to. I know that it's her fault for the way things turned out, but it happened...you can't change it and now she has to deal with it, and she is so young she doesn't know how. I was really upset that Ben came over and decided to be "the man" and demand he babysit John. One, he has no expierince with babies, at all! Two, Amy said no. Amy is the mother, Ben is not the father. End of story. I'm sorry,but no matter what her mother or Ricky or Ben decided he had no right to demand that. It's not his baby!!!!!! It should have been over, and she shouldn't have given in. Sorry so long...I have a lot of opinions about it! lol...BEST SHOW EVER!!!!!!!!! RICKY+AMY+JOHN 4EVER!!!!

archie4ever's picture

downsyndrome kids are not that obsessed with talking about sex....

irots's picture

he is an actor! he is saying what is wrote out for him, comment is kinda mean Puzzled

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k 1. slotatlover223 you can find the episode on da internet at fastpasstv.com
2. i tink grace wud of found another way to push jack out because adrian was right she wasnt ready
3. i hope Adrian & Ben will sleep together because they ar both so jealous nd ben is so horny nd den amy & ricky can be together!! Big smile nd
4. i love this show nd no offense bu ppl shud stop sayin dis season is crap! there has only been 2 episodes!!

AMY + RICKY + JOHN 4EVA!! Big smile

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lovealways100_d756's picture

Alright, I use to be a Amy and Ben= forver person, but now I am having second thoughts. I think that Ben will stay with Amy for at least a couple more years, then they will both go their separate ways. I mean, for crying out loud!!! This is highschool, and in reality there would be no Ben. But, Amy will not end up with Ricky either. They didn't get along romatically the first time, so the odds are that they never will, but they can still stay very close friends because of the baby. What I think is going to happen is years after hightschool, when Amy is an adult, she will meet a wonderful man, who would never pressure her or isn't upsessed with sex, only her, and would respect her wishes no matter the cost, and love her son John and her. I think this guy will be very handsome, and someone that is ready to be a parent. I don't think Amy is going to marry Ricky or Ben, but a guy that she will meet many years from now, who wasn't apart of Amy being pregnant!

Reeses31416's picture

WOW!!! Grace is being stupid!! Can't she just except that her father died by ACCIDENT! now she is blaming Jack and thats not right... If shes going to blame someone... it shouldnt be Jack or Herslef... or anybody else for that matteR! GEEZE sooo much Dramma is this season! Smiling Still love the show though!! Smiling <#

Forever and Always,
~*An@*~

catiecatk's picture

It was a plane crash. It was an accident. She didn't kill any one. I miss the nice Grace that wanted to help every one. She needs to stop torturing her self and get over it. I'm not saying its not okay to be sad. She just needs to move on and stop hurting Jack and all her other friends. Secret Life still is the best show in the planet.

slotatlover233's picture

i missed last nites episode Crying ........ does anyone know where I can find it?????

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tdatink's picture

Big smile hey you can watch any missed episodes on this website! you can watch the whole thing!

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Reeses31416's picture

Hey! Smiling You can get it right here off the website! Smiling

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adoncia35's picture

well i think that grace needs to stop pushing every one away because alot of people are trying to help her and shes not cooperating and she needs to stop thinking its her fault and jacks fault that her dad dies because its no ones fault like just because she had sex with jack when her dad told her to wait doesnt mean that its her fault that her dad died....like seriously.....and i think that amy needs to stop being a b**** to everyone thats trying to help her like she needs to let ben help cuz he really cares for amy and the baby even though its not his and he just wants whats best for the both of them even though its rickys responsibility and she needs to let ricky make the decisions to cuz he is the father and it should be 50/50 no matter what......and if i was a teenage mom i would get all the help that i can get.......so basically i think that grace and amy should stop pushing people away and that amy should accept the fact that she got pregnant and now has a baby and that grace should accept the fact that her dad died and stop thinking that it was her fault cuz its not....

leah2186's picture

I agree with what you say, but I also see how Amy wouldn't feel comfortable with having Ben watching the baby. I have a 10 month old and I just don't feel comfortable letting anyone watch him that doesn't have any experience with babies. She's going through a roller coaster of emotions after having a baby. I agree she should hold it together better, but maybe she's just so young she doesn't know how. I'm sure she'll learn to deal and come around.

~Proud mommy of Xavier Sebastian, born 8/13/08~

Ricky to Amy- "When everything else is bad in our lives, at least we've got him."

Calibratt16's picture

ok seriously, i keep reading these posts that Grace is being a B**** and everything but has anyone really lost anyone so suddenly?? I lost my boyfriend without notice 2 years ago and I acted the same why (without blaming it on myself), I was angry all the time, didn't want help from anyone and just wanted to cry and be alone, it is a natural process she is sad and angry about her actions. She is not being a B***** she is just greiving!! Get over it people.

As for Amy she is being a total B*****, Ricky is just trying to help and be there for her and John and she is pushing everyone away and also Ben he is trying to help and she does not want it. She needs to grow up and accept help and get over herself, she is not anymore grown up then any of her peers!!

young-love's picture

I am very upset, Amy has become really mean Mad !! I wish she would go back to the way she was Angel

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TheSecretLifeoftheAmericanTeenagerLover2014's picture

Grace needs to stop thinking that she killed her father. And she needs to stop pushing Jack away. Hes trying to be there for her and shes pushing him away. And Tom needs to stop blaming everyone for killing his father... it was an ACCIDENT! And Ben needs to get his mind away from having sex with Amy, she just had a baby! And I'm sure that's the last thing she wants to do. And I hope Amy and Ben break up, as of now they are in a rocky place in there relationship. And Ricky needs to stop having sex with Adrian. But since Amy looks like shes trying to push Ben away she will get closer to Ricky.

Shailene Woodley(Amy) is an amazing actress! <3
Ricky:"Hi John, Daddy's here, I love you."
Amy:"If someone likes you, you cant help but like them back."
Amy+Ricky=<3

bluebuggie2014's picture

Gasp I hate how tom is blaming everyone...i know he has the mind of like a 6 year old (cus he has down syndrome) but he blames adrian and jack and grace and cant anyone stop to think that the plane crash was an ACCIDENT?!?!?!?!?!? And Im sorry but AMY IS BECOMMING A [filtered word]!!!!!!!! Mad She is always mad at everyone including ricky. and she shouldnt act that way towards him because most teen fathers leave and dont stand by the mothers if they get preggo. And BEN is asking Amy for SEX?!?!? She JUST had a baby Secret but then again, he has a drawer full of condoms... lol Sticking out tongue Big smile

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ricky_love96's picture

woww grace is being such a jerk seriosly its not his fault its not her fault and she has no right saying its his fault SHE TOLD HIM SHE WANTED TO!!! and she admitted she only did it out of jealousy so if it was anyone of thier faults it was more her fault then his so grace can take that to the grave!!

ricky+amy
ben+adrian
grace+jack

bluebuggie2014's picture

I sooo agree!!!!!
also agree about the ricky+amy

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lauter's picture

you know grace just needs a good kick in the you know where. She's pushing everyone away when it was her that wanted sex, her that wanted to try it no matter how much she said she wouldn't. They didn't kill her dad, and if she keeps on going like that, its gonna be like amy crying over everything in every episode when she was pregnant. i mean grace says sex like every ten words. she needs to stop. and tom is being brave because at least he is saying what he is feeling and thats how you start to heal.

And one day your sunrise will be looking into their eyes.

bluebuggie2014's picture

YUP!!! She is blaming jack when she was the one who pushed and asked and even b4 they did it he asker r u sure about this...

LexLex Smiling

thelionandthelamb_01's picture

I love this show! even though its overly dramatic and like a soap opera!Ricky is such a jerk!I hope Ben and Amy's relationship works out even though he mostly just wants sex from her...

~and so the lion fell in love with the lamb~

bluebuggie2014's picture

NOOOO!!!! AMY+RICKY LOL

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savvy_girl's picture

I agree that this season is sucking a little bit on graces end because how the hell can she logically come to the conclusion that she killed her dad. It doesn't make since, even when she explained it to her mom it sounded foolish and unlogical.....you directors of the show might want to hurry up and clear her mind.

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Jacelynnsmom08's picture

No comment i truly think that Grace shouldn't treat the people that are trying to be her friend.She's just be rue and blaming her dad's death upon Jack and herself....its stupid,immature.Adrian had told Grace not to have sex because she wasn't ready too and she done it upon herself!!!! In the first season all she talked about was not having sex until she was out of college!!!WOW!!What a change...i think that Ben should let Amy raise her baby the way she wants to with Ricky because there the parents not him...and he is always around Amy's business way too much!!!

kasi181's picture

you know, i used to like grace and everything; but i feel like shes ruining the show.

savvy_girl's picture

I know her attitude is sort of ruining the spirit of the show I mean I can understand grieving but grieving is not what this is..I would have expected her to blame God but blaming herself...that does not even make sense....

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secret_life_twilight12's picture

grace should no that god would never killl someone as punishment for haveing sex as a teenager? yes its bad to do, yes she lost her virginty seconds before she found out her dad was in a plane crash, but accedents happen and this for one was not on purpose or as a punishment.. she needs therapy and she needs to lighten up but it is such a hard time for her so maybe we should give her some space and see what happens in the next few episodes =] cant wait for next monday! Heart eyes Cool Big smile Smiling

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secret_life_twilight12's picture

grace should no that god would never killl someone as punishment for haveing sex as a teenager? yes its bad to do, yes she lost her virginty seconds before she found out her dad was in a plane crash, but accedents happen and this for one was not on purpose or as a punishment.. she needs therapy and she needs to lighten up but it is such a hard time for her so maybe we should give her some space and see what happens in the next few episodes =] cant wait for next monday! Heart eyes Cool Big smile Smiling

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perfect little family
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ricky
and baby john
secret life and twilight forever! =]

fobgirl20's picture

grace is getting on my nerves.

ricky_n_amy's picture

jack did not kill her dad

sweetgirl123's picture

I feel really bad for jack...

bubblegum95's picture

ehh?!?! i hate this season, it suckks!...grace used too be my favorite...she can't blame it on Jack! it takes two pll to do somethingg like that! and i dout that her dad died because she had sex, thats a stupid reason!..(just sayin'). and what does she mean he won't see her at church? she's not going anymore cause her fatherr died, no...thats no....

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braysmama's picture

ok tom is really [filtered word] me off he is making everything way worse and so is grace but i think tom is the one that started it he was the one that got the idea in her head and he keeps adding to it which also isnt helpping! oh and i love that jack was drinking beer, i just think that it is werid that everyone is so open about there sex lifes and yet no one drinks or does drugs im sry but that is sooo unrealist!

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OMG!!! i cant wait till next monday

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braysmama's picture

ok tom is really [filtered word] me off he is making everything way worse and so is grace but i think tom is the one that started it he was the one that got the idea in her head and he keeps adding to it which also isnt helpping! oh and i love that jack was drinking beer, i just think that it is werid that everyone is so open about there sex lifes and yet no one drinks or does drugs im sry but that is sooo unrealist!

braysmama's picture

ok tom is really [filtered word] me off he is making everything way worse and so is grace but i think tom is the one that started it he was the one that got the idea in her head and he keeps adding to it which also isnt helpping! oh and i love that jack was drinking beer, i just think that it is werid that everyone is so open about there sex lifes and yet no one drinks or does drugs im sry but that is sooo unrealist!

normroxmysox's picture

Urg Grace is being soo ridiculous she is blaming everything on Jack and it isn't his fault if she didn't want to have sex she should have said noo. She is being so oblivious to the truth that she didn't kill her dad it just happened I wish that someone could tell her that and she would understand.

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bbygirlx3's picture

OMG NO OFFENSE BUT GRACE IS BEING SUCH A B!TCH :Smiling

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rickylover12345's picture

wow!!!! This is very werid Grace use to be nice now she is a brat

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TheSecretLifeBiggestFan's picture

Wow Grace is huritng extremely bad. She is going to blame jack and herself she needs to see a grief counselor and tom doesnt make the situation any better by placing the blame. I think adrian was being a BEE to amy because she is the closest to grace besides jack and if adrian couldnt help grace then no one could cus they are bestfriends. I didnt like how grace was talking to amy about how god punished both of them for having sex and amy said that john is not a punishment for anything because amy is right. Baby john is not a punishment he is a blessing and grace is not being punished either but she is to blinded by regret and grief to see past that

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cintawinta's picture

Grace seriously needs to get over having sex with Jack because she needs to believe she didn't kill her father because it's getting kind of irratating and Tom needs to stop blaming other people and Grace because he is making it worse too.

mater57's picture

i no grace needs to get over her self and realize its not her fault and that it was her fault for having sex when she wasn't ready

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