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ABC Family: The Secret Life of the American Teenager spoiler alert! grace faces death

spoiler alert! grace faces death

spoiler alert! grace faces death

How will Grace deal with the worst blow of her life?

After all, Grace and her dad were on the outs right before his terrible accident on "The Secret Life of The American Teenager," and their argument was about whether she was ready to have sex ... or not. So, freaky coincidence that she had one of the best nights of her life -- only to end it with the most awful news ever.

How will Grace deal with the trauma of losing her dad, especially since she refused to call him and make up right before he took off? Will she be just as strong and brave as ever, and help her mom and Tom in their time of need? Or will she crumble under the pressure and guilt and show a side of herself we've never seen?

And what about Jack? Will she turn to him for moral support -- or forever link him with the night her dad died and banish him from her life?

How do you think ever-cheerful, God-fearing Grace will handle the darkest moment of her life? And how will it change her feelings about the big three-letter word?

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goldicecubes's picture

Isn't this a little harsh. How long is it going to take for Grace to get over this? Get back together with Jack? etc. etc. etc.?

!Paola!

slotatlover233's picture

OMG!!!! In NO way is it graces fault that her dad died..... and I'm not sure who Amy should be with because it is Ricky's baby and he cares soooooooooo much 4 him but Ben "loves" Amy. But I do agree with the fact Ben is getting soooooooooooooo annoying....... he is soooooooooo jealous and the whole coming right out about "I want to have sex" right after Amy had the baby is.... ugh..... I don't even know the right word for it.

live 2 watch secret life....... watch secret life 2 live.

perfect family=amy+ricky+john (ben has g2g)

lexieroxursox's picture

OMG when i saw this i was like Gasp and i did not c that coming but when i heard that her dad had died i cried my heart out and it was soooooooooo sad Big cry Big cry Big cry Crying Crying Crying Big cry i cant belive that they would do that to her character but it makes me want the show on every nite lol

-Amy Jon And Ricky 4eva Babe!!-

RainbowForADay17's picture

I think its terrible how they made Grace's character a "Christian" when true Christians dont have pre marital sex. Their making Christians on this show act like the rest of the world..

SeCrEt.LiFe.FaN.'s picture

OMG I know!!! I hate it!! it drives me crazy!!

Team Ricky & Amy!!!!
BEN MUST GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Hi John, Daddy's here, I love you" -Ricky

yvette007's picture

Man, I thought the dialogue was terrible.
It all sounded so formulaic, and robotic.
Idk.
Of course it's not Grace's fault.
And I think they put the death way too early in the season.
Why were they in such a hurry to kill him off?
Ben is still annoying me, Grace annoyed me, Amy put your boobs away, and goodness I wish the adults in this show would act like actual adults.
Whatevs, I'm still glad the show is back!
It'll be tight to see Grace turn into a jerk, that'd def be interesting to watch.

geekonpatrol45's picture

I completely agree about Grace and Ben being annoying. Characters like this make the show seem very unrealistic.
I also agree about the adults in the show acting like actual adults. Parents in general should be setting an example for their children. The only realistic character in the show is Ricky.
I believe the death in the show was necessary. They needed something other than pregnancy. Now that the mother is pregnant, I think the show has gotten a little out of hand with the pregnancy part of it. It should be more dramatic I think, because if they don't make it different they are going to start losing viewers.
They should have Grace turn into a "bad girl." It would be realistic and show kids how hard it is to lose a parent.
It is not at all Grace's fault for her father passing on. After all, she was not the one controlling the plane.

Love, Stephanie.

tlgzbest's picture

I HATE GRACE NOW SHES TURNING INTO A SLUT LATELY SHES JUST LIKE ADRIEN AND SHE IS A HYPOCRITE BCUZ SHE SAID FOR PPL NOT TOM HAVE SEX AND SHE JUMPS UP AND DECIDES TO HAVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YALL ARE FREAKIN STUPID FA NOT REALIZING THIS DUMB CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~~~T.L.G.z~~~

teardropsonmyguitar114's picture

Of course it isn't her fault! The plane crash was a freak accident, and it just happened to occur on the night Grace decided to sleep with her boyfriend, which is totally and completely HER decision. I personally don't believe in God, but even if I did believe that a God existed, he wouldn't be so cruel as to take away a girl's father as a punishment for having sex before marriage, something that 3 out of 5 teenage girls do every day. And for everyone saying that ABC Family is pushing the "don't have sex before marriage" thing a little too far by killing off Grace's dad, they aren't trying to scare teenage girls into abstinence by saying that if you have sex, your dad is going to die in a freak accident. It's a drama show, so the death of a main character was kind of inevitable, and now Grace's long journey in getting over her guilt and her dad's death will be a key plot element in the new season. Plus, the actor who played Grace's dad quit the show, so they just weaved that into the show by killing off the character completely. Same with Molly Ringwald, who plays Amy's mom. She's pregnant in real life too, so they wrote it into the show that Anne got pregnant by her boyfriend David, which will also be a huge plot element in the new season.

dynisabby's picture

I FEEL SO BAD 4 GRACE AND HER FAMILY I STARTED TO CRY WHEN THEY SAID THT MARSHALL DIED Crying

WHEN I FIRST SAW YOU
I WAS AFRAID TO MEET YOU
WHEN I FIRST MET YOU
I WAS AFRAID TO HUG
WHEN I FIRST I HUGGED YOU
I WAS AFRAID TO KISS YOU
WHEN I FIRST KISSED YOU
I WAS AFRAID TO LOVE YOU
NOW THAT I LOVE YOU
IM AFRAID TO LOSE YOU!!!!!!!

tryingtimes117's picture

OMG I had no idea Molly Ringwald was actually pregnant!!! WOW
and obviously not everytime you have sex something horrible like ur dad dying is gonna happen. Just look @ Adrian haha. Sometimes people need rly bad stuff like that to happen to get them on the right track. Grace was walking straight off the right path and her dad dying was something to steer back into the right direction. And I ttyl agree about how they just did that so they would show Grace's journey in getting over her guilt and her dad's death....to make the show more interesting (DUH! As if its not interesting enough already lol)

~SeCrEt LiFe AdDiCt~
Don't Charge Me For the Crime
"I doubt God punishes people nearly as much as people punish eachother and themselves"~ Anne
R.I.P Michael Jackson
MoonWalk to the sky, man!

tryingtimes117's picture

I don't think it's techncally Grace's fault but it is her punishment from God for havin sex even tho she knew it was wrong and God even sent Adrianne (OUT OF ALL PPL!) to warn her not to have sex. But she does it anywayz Puzzled I disagree that she's taking it out on Jack becuz thats probably gonna make him feel rly guilty altho it was probably Grace's idea in the 1st place to have sex. POOR GRACE!...AND JACK Sad Sad
Im disappointed! Sad

P.S. RIP Marshall Crying

~SeCrEt LiFe AdDiCt~
Don't Charge Me For the Crime
"I doubt God punishes people nearly as much as people punish eachother and themselves"~ Anne
R.I.P Michael Jackson
MoonWalk to the sky, man!

pinkrose12's picture

It's a show, I don't think they ment it to be a punishment from God. The reason why I believe they made it to be night she had sex was to represent her ignorance to how Marshall told her to wait until marrige and she didn't listen to him. She probably will banish Jack.

Eli*

rockenbri1's picture

u r right its not her falt but she shuld of lisond to adrianne Angel but im sad for her Crying

Brianna Ditmars

amyandrickybelongtogether's picture

wow...why would grace blame herself for this when it isnt anybodys fault! she was just doing the wrong thing at the wrong time! Crying

meggers~valley magic~ GO # 60!!!

Sally1824's picture

Angel if I were the author of the secret life I she would have given Grace something more real that a simple coincidence, to have sex doesnt means that you are going to kill someone loved, they make it to put fear to the young people, nevertheless I would have given to Grace aids/hiv that is something that could have happened to her and could had been a hard subject and less outside the reality. I'm a teenager so I know what i want to see, but the show still good and i love it,is full of all the expectations than a young person must know. Good source of info but still we shoul ask more about the subject.

P.S. I'm teenage writer not a very professional one but teenage...

Blondie0914's picture

Yeah, i think so to. But, that just left everyone on with a hook. Windering about it. Which is what all tv shows wanna have. They are just really good about doing that. (:

southernchick48's picture

They had to kill him off because the actor quit!

marleni8989's picture

actually it is Graces fault that her dad died cuz her dad went away cuz of grace he was upset cuz grace didnt want to wait to have sex so he said he needed sometime away. so if i were grace i would feel terrible cuz she didnt even wanna talk to her dad when dah plane was about to go......so yea it is graces Falut!!!!! No comment

Baby girl

Blondie0914's picture

Are you kidding??? NO! hE WENT AWAY BECAUSE OF WORK NOT BECAUSE HE WAS ANGRY. GEEZZZEEE. hE DID NOT DIE JUST BECAUSE OF HER. SERIOUSLY GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE YIOU SPEEK YOUR MIND.

keke11's picture

its not graces fault and she shouldn't blame herself nor jack she should be strong and know its not her fault:( god bless u grace

*keke*<3

alliheartssecretlife's picture

god bless grace and her family.

@llison

alliheartssecretlife's picture

god bless grace and her family.

@llison

mrgnsylvester's picture

I, for one, can't understand why anyone would want Ricky to be with Amy instead of Ben. Sure, Ben can be arrogant or airhead-ish sometimes, but he really likes Amy and wants to help take responsibility for something he didn't do. Ricky is a slacker who has commitment issues. Did no one realize that throughout a majority of the show he cheated on Grace with Adrienne? It seems like a no-brainer. Take Ben. The faithful one. So why does everyone seem inclined to favor the scumbag that Ricky is? I don't care if he had childhood trauma, it doesn't excuse anything. He can dictate his own life and the choices he makes are his own. So, why Ricky?

Smiling

mrgnsylvester's picture

I, for one, can't understand why anyone would want Ricky to be with Amy instead of Ben. Sure, Ben can be arrogant or airhead-ish sometimes, but he really likes Amy and wants to help take responsibility for something he didn't do. Ricky is a slacker who has commitment issues. Did no one realize that throughout a majority of the show he cheated on Grace with Adrienne? It seems like a no-brainer. Take Ben. The faithful one. So why does everyone seem inclined to favor the scumbag that Ricky is? I don't care if he had childhood trauma, it doesn't excuse anything. He can dictate his own life and the choices he makes are his own. So, why Ricky?

Smiling

Banana18's picture

I can't believe they killed Grace's dad and it's really annoying that her brother is blaming her for the death considering it was only an accident! Gasp

~BANANA~

Nefquelle's picture

I really feel for Grace right now. Something like the death of an immediate family member hits a lot harder than most people can imagine. She is probably feeling as if she is being punished by God for sleeping with Jack. She will probably resent Jack for a while, or possibly the rest of her life, it all depends on how she deals with stress and traumatic experiences. And Although she may think it now, I don't think it was wrong of her to have had sex. She was much smarter and much more prepared for it that most teenagers who have sex at that age.

saraya boo's picture

wow Gasp i wasnt expecting that from grace she has always been so sweet and innocent it is really a big shoker... Crying but all through the seasons she has been a strong person so i think she can make it through!!! Wink

Smiling

kee-kee16's picture

I think its not her fault that her dad died an she prob going be thinking its all her fault but i kno grace she going work it all out i believe in her Smiling And i think her and jack need to stay together cause i think its not his fault but him and grace will work things out i hope cause they make a cute couple an they love each other so i think they will be ok she just hurt rite now Angel

~kee-kee~

dyrd3kl0v3r's picture

If I know how Grace thinks, I believe that she will blame herself for her fathers death. She might believe that her having sex with Jack and her father dying the same night might be Gods punishment for her decision about adultery. That's just my opinion. Smiling

Manda! <3

Tiffertot's picture

I hope her friends will pull together and continue to support her through this, like she would have done for any of them. It's not her fault her dad's dead. And this should not be a reason for her to throw Jack out of her life either.

This message has been brought to you by Tiffertot. =)

Blondie0914's picture

No comment

trishiex3's picture

I saw the previews for next week and Iam so disappointed! I cant believe Grace is "blaming" Jack! This is deff not what I expected from this new season Sad

trishiex3's picture

I saw the previews for next week and Iam so disappointed! I cant believe Grace is "blaming" Jack! This is deff not what I expected from this new season Sad

13loves's picture

i know alot of whats going to happen this season

she is going to bring the baby home her boyfriends gonna get jelous cause her breast got bigger aftr the baby and the momma is preggos by that guy she is seeing (they wrote it in2 the script cause she preggos in real life lol) ricky gonna b hanging around a little more the sister still the same something bad is gonna happen to the latina girl you know the one whos in love w/ ricky and thats all I know!!! hope it helped

Amy and Ben are going to break up and she's then going to get together with Ricky just because Ben was so jealous. I hope this happens because she should be able to choose what she wears without Bens very rude comments!

thats all i know for right now

Amy and Ricky plus Jon are forever <3 <3 <3

heartsx2's picture

i dont think grace's dad dying was her fault. she probably felt bad enough already one thing thats 4 sure is that its not her fault! Crying Crying Crying Crying Crying Crying Crying really feel bad Crying Crying Crying Crying rip marshall Big cry Big cry Big cry Big cry Big cry

ashley cervantes

ActuallyAMom's picture

Ok it's just a show a very good show but a show. The big tip off that the Marshall character wasn't coming back & was dieing off on that episode was that he didn't appear in it at all. There for that means for whatever reason his CONTRACT was not renewed for the show. I'm a mom & even at 15 I would not expect my mother to take care of my son & work & maintain a life of her own. Amy's the 1 that got pregnant & wanted to keep the baby that's her responsibility not Ann's. I've been pregnant twice & have given birth twice, That aspect of the show is not acurate, IT HURTS TO GIVE BIRTH & IT'S UNCOMFORTABLE TO BE PREGNANT especially when your thin to begin with. Also generally speaking when your pregnant not just your belly gains weight it shows everywhere your face, brest, butt & legs. Grace had sex omg it's not that big a deal she's at what I think should be the average age but guess what now a days girls are more like Ashley's age. Grace did not kill her father. Tell me one scene in the show where she put a gun to his head, strangled,stabbed or poisoned him. Can you ? I didn't think so. Ricky reminds me of my eldest sons father. If he does date Amy he's going to hurt her he may not even do it on purpose but he will. Did everyone else miss the fact that he dated grace & slept with Adriane. HMM a clue sherlock it's a pattern of behavior that's not going to change till he wants it to. As for Amy & Ben there TEENAGERS. As you grow up you change it's going to happen no matter how much you don't want it to. People grow apart. It would appear that Ben is just not mature enough or secure enough to properly deal with the situations not that I'm shocked he is the only virgin left on the show. As far as declaring he wants sex right after she had a baby well personal experience tells me that just from having the baby Amy would have a very uncomfortable tome sitting down let alone having sex. If she's smart she's going to focus on her & John for a while & forget the drama of a boyfriend (ie finishing school, working to support John & in general taking care of him). Yes when you have babies you don't get to be one anymore so the whole preview where she says she doesn't have time to be a teenager well DUHHHHH. You have a whole little person to care for. If she didn't want the responsibility she should have A. Not had sex. B. Been prepared (condoms & birthcontrol) C. Actually followed through with an adoption. Like I said it's a show it's a great show don't get me wrong. There are parts that are accurate & parts that could be more realistc. The point of the show seems to be a soap opera for teens & a campaign for the obvious lets all say it together now "you should wait till your married before you have sex & talk to your parents before it's to late." Which is not entirely a bad idea. It's supposed to entertain & stimulate not cause some of the idiotic comments left by SOME of you. You might not like what I have to say but think about this I have children been there done that maybe not at 15 but at 20. Guess what you adapt you grow up & Amy's character is going to have to for John's sake.

the secret life chica's picture

OK UMM SORRY BUT THIS IS A TEENAGER SHOW AND NO1 WANTS YOUR OPINION ON YOUNG PPL SHOWS!!!! IF YOU HAVE KIDS AND ARE OVER 20 YOU SHOULD NOT BE WATCHING THIS OR POSTING BULLETINS ON HERE!!!

Sticking out tongue NATALLE ALEXIS JUST MESSAGED U BABE:p

Blondie0914's picture

Seriously anyone who is gonnna spend this much time on this is wasting there time. There are so many of you all on here that are like okayy abc family is going too far!! Well do you not read when it first comes on that it does not reflect the views of ABC Family and that Parental Discretion or whatever is advised i mean come on. Other then all the drama in it, it is pretty much reall. I know that in my high school there is one click that is exactly like this. All they are doing is making a show out of something that happens everyday. The only difference is that they are just adding twists to it to make it more interesting. It's not like they are just saying the whole time that sex is okay. They are showing you the real consiquences of sex. And just how stressful it makes like. Everyone on this stupid thing acts like that sence it is on abc family they should not even have the word sex in it. Seriously!?!?! And btw to everyone who says elementary schoolers watch it so they should not make it say this! That is kind of stupid because parents really need to start checking what kids watch. I know that i hear things that are twenty million times worse then all this just on the bus!!!!!! Can you imagine it IN school. Come on! Everyone acts like this show is just telling everyone to have sex. It is just a show that is on telivision for teens to watch. It is not there for you to begin to live your life like that! They want to make a show for people. Does anyone but me remember when 7th heaven was on tv?? Well that is the creator. And you know that show was pretty popular too. The only difference is that they put the word sex in it, and base it off of a different beginning. If you do not like this show or don think your kids should watch it, then turn off the tv!!! Becausse some people enjoy it and are sick of all the drama with it.

13loves's picture

YEA THIS A TEENAGER SHOW NOT A ADULT SHOW SO YOU ARE NOT THE PERSON WHO WRITES THE SCRIPT

Amy and Ricky plus Jon are forever <3 <3 <3

xoxbrit10's picture

i feel really bad for grace! But it wasn't her fault at all. I don't think she thinks its her fault i think she feels bad because she was fighting w/ her dad & then went agains't what he said and had sex and never got to apologize to him for the arguement and stuff. She know's that her mother was right and she should of called before the plane left. I think she's more upset knowning that he passed away and they'll never get to apologize & make up and she knows he's disappointed that she didn't listen and wait longer. I think were going to see a whole other side to grace. I wasn't expecting everything that happened in the first show of the new season. I think there's going to be alot of different turns throughout the season.

lizzielou's picture

I feel really sorry for Grace. I know if I was Grace, I would proably never move on. Also, I would feel guilty. I know that she is not, but she said goodbye to him when they were mad at eachother. And she had sex with Jack when she knew that it was wrong and her father did not want her to. I think that Ricky and Amy should NOT be together. She belongs with Ben! But I know that relationships that are like that when they are soo young does not last. I love this show, it is very intertaning.

Elizabeth NY

lizzielou's picture

I feel really sorry for Grace. I know if I was Grace, I would proably never move on. Also, I would feel guilty. I know that she is not, but she said goodbye to him when they were mad at eachother. And she had sex with Jack when she knew that it was wrong and her father did not want her to. I think that Ricky and Amy should NOT be together. She belongs with Ben! But I know that relationships that are like that when they are soo young does not last. I love this show, it is very intertaning

Elizabeth NY

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!

Softballchik's picture

I dont think Grace was the one to cause her dad's death, I know she will prolly think that for a while but thats just that. She didnt know anything was gonna happen. I really think thats the end for Jack (well at least for a while). She i not gonna like hom for a lil bit because of what happened. I feel so bad for her. I think Amy and Ricky would b PERFECT, i dont know why I just think Bens a jerk and ESPECIALLY after asking Amy to have sex right after she had a kid and that kinda put a ruin on her life. I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Amy+ Ricky!
Grace+Jack!