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Posted Fri, 07/03/2009 - 14:45 — kelsibabe333my boyfriend wants to have sex.
he has condoms and i just got off the pill
i don't wanna be hurt though but i love him
If ur off the pill and u do it use two condoms. But I advise you dont. Its ur choice and ur life run it how u want, im just here to give u some friendly advice
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2 condoms are worse than using nothing. Overlapping them like that can cause a lot of friction and heat between the two. Thus risking them breaking. It's just not a good idea.
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Can you even do that? I have very minimal knowledge about sex, but I don't think you can wear 2 condoms. I guess you can wear 1 male and 1 female (yes, they do exist!), but that's not recommended, because they can stick together.
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I suppose theoretically you a guy could wear two condoms... but only a damned paranoid fool would do it lol
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First off, as a Christian, I believe that sex outside of marriage is a sin, and I would highly advise you against it. However, if you have no morals and will go through with it anyway, it's best to be safe. Talk to him about his history. Ask about any former partners. If you're not his first, ask him to get tested for STDs. If he refuses, and says that you don't trust him, he's not the one for you. He might be hiding something. If and only if his tests come back clean, have an open and honest discussion about what would happen in the slight chance that you do become pregnant. Is this a person you want to create a life with? After considering possible consequences, get back on birth control. To be extra safe, find out when you ovulate (When your eggs are able to be firtilized). You can get a test for this at a drug store or somewhere that sells pregnancy tests. Do not have sex while you are ovulating, or within 3 days before or after you do. And making sure you're on some sort of interior method of birth control (pill, patch, shot, IUT, ring), you should still use a physical barrier method as a precaution (condom, diaphragm). So please be extra careful, especially considering you're probably very young. But again, the only fool-proof method of birth control is complete abstinence. DON'T DO IT!!
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Alright, who are you and what did you do to Hannah!!
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I realized that this chick will probably not listen to my very WISE advice to wait till marriage. And we do not need more unwanted kids that will grow up in poverty due to their teenage parents!!
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Quick Question.
How is asking for advice on how to deal with this situation on the Internet a demonstration that she is not ready to have Sex? The Internet is a collection of Anonymous people. What better place to find a group who will not judge, then on here? She doesn't want her friends influencing her choice in anyway. She wants unbiased advice for this situation.
Throw in that the shows very theme is Sex. One can easily conclude that... well this is a more ideal place to ask on the internet.
Not ready for sex? Maybe. But seeking advice on the internet about such things does not mean she isn't ready. It just means she wants to seek advice in a safe place(ha the internet safe xD )
So yeah.
Wait... why did you go off the pill? Did you mean On instead?
If a guy can't wait for you to be ready, they are not worth the time. A real man, note this is coming from an actual male, will wait patiently. He will accept that you are not ready. They may bring it up from time to time, but they will respectfully wait. Any guy who doesn't do this, is simply not worth it. They are simply in it for the sex.
But if you do decide to have sex, make sure you are on the pill and use a condom.
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Well I would say because she is looking for advice on it. I think that sex (well for girls at least) is a very important and intimate decision that one has to take when they feel ready and comfortable with themselves and their partner. It's one thing to ask things how was your first time,tips and so on yeah that I can understand but to ask if she shold have sex or not in the first place....to me that's a sign that she is not ready for sex. But oh well that's just me
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Fair enough.
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Why did you get OFF the pill?? And do not do it.
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Tell him "no." If he really does love and respect you he will stick around. If not, good ridance.
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If you need to seek advice from strangers on the internet you are obviously not ready to have sex. When you are ready you will know it.
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DO NOT DO IT.
If you have to ask for advice or opinions on a message board about it, YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX. Why in the world would you stop taking the pill if you're thinking about having sex?! I really hope that's a type-o, because that really makes you look like another incompetent teen. You need to take it at the SAME TIME every day, for a full cycle (a month), before it starts working correctly.
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I think u should wait and u got OFF the pill? I think u should get back on the pill and if he really loves u then he can wait best of luck:)
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go back on the pilll....but dont let him push you into doing something you dont want to do..he should respect ur feelings about sex if ur not ready ur not ready..he should understand that as ur boyfriend if he loves you and cares about you..doing something ur not ready to do is bad..you could very much regret it in the end.
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I think u should wait and u got OFF the pill? I think u should get back on the pill and if he really loves u then he can wait best of luck:)
~Franklin High School Varsity Cheerleader Leah~
I think u should wait and u got OFF the pill? I think u should get back on the pill and if he really loves u then he can wait best of luck:)
~Franklin High School Varsity Cheerleader Leah~
Getting off the pill is NOT a good idea at all. First how old are you? Are you ready for a child?
My husband...My hero
~20 weeks and counting~
~Our beautiful little lady, Brylee, will be here April 15, 2010~
~Trista, wife to Adam and proud Air Force wife~
just got OFF the pill?
that doesnt sound like a good idea to me, right after vyou go off the pill i think you have an increased risk of pregnancy.
how old are you?
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