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I think I wanna be a lesbian!

After school today I met up with my friend Brittany and met her partner Cassie for the 3rd time and we all went to Sequoia for a couple hours and seeing them together as a couple I have decided I'd like to become a lesbian.... too bad I'm not one...

I really don't get people's problems with gays and lesbians (except when they trick you into thinking their straight then the person they tricked has a right to have a problem with them for a while)... They seem to make better couples than straight couples do from all that I've seen... plus I hear they make better parents too!!!

Sorry for the random post... I was just bored and about to go to bed and thought "Hey, I wonder what kind of response this would get!?" (no, none of this is a joke... after today, I truely do almost wish I were a lesbian...)

casondra12's picture

I just realized that most of my friends are either bi, I was like ' I want to be bi' But I didn't have the guts to actually go out with a girl. Sad

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kylexylover122's picture

That sux!( not because you want to be a lesbian, but because you can't or think you can't) Hope I made sense, lol!

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melissa0522975's picture

I'm trying to make it make sense! I think I gotcha though!

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

kylexylover122's picture

Lol! Good!

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Unit7's picture

They seem to make better couples than straight couples do from all that I've seen... plus I hear they make better parents too

Complete and utter myths. Well actually I think the idea was that Homosexual parents make worse parenting. But either way its bogus. They are human and therefore are the mercy of all of our nasty habbits. And humanity as a long list.

You do realize you are basicly stereotyping a whole group of people?

They do not make a better couple compared to heterosexuals. They are the same aswell. Simply because they are human. There are countless heterosexuals who have great relationships together, just as there are countless heterosexuals who have terrible relationships with eachother. Same goes for the Homosexual relationships, there are countless who have great ones and then there are the countless who have terrible ones.

Being a lesbian in no way shape or form would garuntee that you would have a great relationship. Its about finding the right person for you. Thats all.


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melissa0522975's picture

How did I know you would be the one to knock me back into reality?
I definitely see what you mean...

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

Unit7's picture

Huh?

Oh I just ranting. It sorta bugs me when people treat gays as either a plague on this world or hold them on a higher pedestal. They are just humans. Sorta unleashed the frustration on you.

Though...

If you ever do decide to become a lesbian. Take lots of pics plzkthx Sticking out tongue


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melissa0522975's picture

Don't believe I ever will... I already know what it's like to have a seemingly perfect boyfriend and have to lose him because he's gay... I'd feel guilty knowing that pain to inflict it on someone else...

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

Unit7's picture

By that reasoning you shouldn't date anyone, I mean what if it goes sour? Unless you are willing to commit to a relationship that you don't want to be in, then what else is there to do? Sticking out tongue

Besides the guy would be more upset he never got into a threesome then anything. In this case I do know what I am talking about. My Girlfriend of about a year came out to me. Now of course I regret many things about the ending of that relationship(boy was a jackarse) But looking back I am more upset about never getting the threesome. Sticking out tongue Though the break up was only painful simply because I loved her so much. Not because she turned out to be gay. Whether or not she was, it still would have hurt like hell. Actually it hurt for a long time...

Wait, what was I talking about Secret


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melissa0522975's picture

Yeah... I am taking a break from love until move to the bay area to university or until I fall madly in love that I can't stand the thought of being without the guy (which I don't see happening for a long time) depending on whichever happens first!

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

__Rex__'s picture

Pictures or it never happened Sticking out tongue

I think it comes down to society and the way we grow up. Or hell maybe it's even natural. When you loook at two guys together there is just this ewww feeling(but on the bright side when it's about hot girls together there is the "hell yes" feeling ). Some people take this simple reaction,sprinkle it with religion and go crazy but I think most people don't really care that much if it's not in their faces. One of the reaosons why I always thought that these parades are the stupides tthings ever

And of course as everybody knows most often then not the most intense homophobes are those are who are gay themselves but can't admit it

HopLikeABunny's picture

It'll be kinda hard to be a lesbian if you're not sexually attracted to women.....

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melissa0522975's picture

I know... that's the only thing keeping me from being one! Sticking out tongue

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

Beautiful_Kill's picture

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with being lesbian.

I have a question though, and I hope you don't mind me asking. Do you want to be a lesbian because there's a female you like? Or do you want to start looking at women more?

Such a beautiful lie to believe in...

melissa0522975's picture

lol, no... the only female I could ever like like that would be Fran Drescher who is well... a celebrity I would probably never meet and straight...

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

Beautiful_Kill's picture

Thanks for answering Smiling
So I suppose that's why you're not a full lesbian? You're just interested in the special connection they have?

Such a beautiful lie to believe in...

melissa0522975's picture

yeah... I'm like 100% attracted to guys more that girls (Fran is the one and only exception! Sticking out tongue).. and they do have a better connection than most straight couples I've seen, and way more sincere... (of course I'm just judging from all the gay/lesbian couples I've seen compared to all the straight ones...)

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

Beautiful_Kill's picture

I agree with you. I've never seen lesbian couples arguing in public and screaming at each other.
Oh, the joys of being without a man Big smile

Such a beautiful lie to believe in...

melissa0522975's picture

My point exactly!!!

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

Beautiful_Kill's picture

Of course, there are things that guys have that girls lack, but lets not go into that Wink

Such a beautiful lie to believe in...

Unit7's picture

As the great Dan Connor once said: You can buy the parts. Wink

Actually I forget the actual quote. But you get the idea Sticking out tongue


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melissa0522975's picture

VERY true!!! Wink

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

__Rex__'s picture

Not to shatter your dreams but I actually have seen lesbians fighting. In fact I have often seen them wrestling in jello. Altough on the bright side they kiss and make up and kiss some more by the end of the fight Sticking out tongue

melissa0522975's picture

I'm sure they fight... but I'm also sure it doesn't get as bad as a straight couple...

I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would

dawn4scifi's picture

Living in a big city as I did I saw many things. I saw people of both kinds of couples be loving to each other or be obnoxious. As Unit said, they are people.

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HopLikeABunny's picture

Don't be too sure. I have known some domestically violent lesbian couples. And my best friend is bisexual and sometimes him and his boyfriend fight and over stupid stuff (I still like them together though).

A relationship has nothing to do with sexuality.

He got big brown eyes, so he look nice
Coming on strong, six pack showing
He's too cool, for his own shoes
Nothing rude, but way too sure for me
-Aaliyah