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why is everyone against Amy?
Posted Wed, 07/01/2009 - 20:46 — melissa0522975I seriously do not get it...
sure she's moody and b!tchy in every episode and yells at everyone alot but give the girl a break! she's a new teenage mother!
I'm sure most of the people who complain about her character have never been teenage mothers before (I know I haven't)
But I, for one, am happy Amy's that way, it wouldn't make sense or be realistic if she was nice all the time and ok with everything... I imagine if anyone else here (even the ones who [filtered word] over Amy's behavior) would have similar behaviors if they were going through what she's going through at the age of only 15....

She needs to take individual responsibility. She did the act, now she has the consequence. Time to woman up kid.
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ya shes a new teenage mother but she is still a b.it.ch she doesnt need to b THT rude and btw shes 16.....not important anyway still they make her TOO rude she needs to cool down a bit...
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i think that maybe they need to cool her rudness down a little but otherwise i like her. it is just really hard for her cuz she has a baby, an annoying boyfriend, split parents, and a pregnant mom.
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I agree with you. She's still adjusting to a new schedule. I know I'll be protective of my kids when I have them.
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I'm not against her, but she does not need to be so irritable all the time, especially towards Ben.
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She is being rude to people who are trying to help. She needs smacked.
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omg i was thinking of postin a blog exactly like this! thank you for standing up for amy i love her attitude and i can completely understand it. she needs an attitude so people dont walk all ovver her like they used to in the first season. she is finally stepping up and speakin her mind! so all you who are against amy,your so wrong about her. she needs to be that way. im glad someone agrees wit me
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Really? wow...
I just posted this cuz I hadn't seen anything similar...
I am glad there seems to be more people who understands her character than I thought... but I saw so many Amy haters that I felt I needed to comment...
I used to believe in all your romantic dreaming
it really ain't that cute anymore
cause my time's to precious
so I wish you the best with
whatever it is you're looking for
baby this is all for your own good
I'm leaving cause I know you never would
I know I just do not like the "entitlement" attitude she had before when she expected her mother to do everything. If she wants a teen's life she should have given the poor child to an adult, financially stable couple.
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Exactly. She made the choice to keep her child. Now it's time for her to suck it up and follow through.
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In real life I would like to hope she would have given John to a real adult family. But, since this is tv, they will have her keep him so the show will go on. It is hard for me to look beyond how this is not the best idea for the child. Often children of single YOUNG mothers are in greater poverty. And, the mothers are still kids themselves. Sigh.
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I don't blame her one bit. Now, everyone might think she is completely over the top with the b*tchiness and all, but you have to remember. She is getting barely any sleep, she has to study, go to school, feed and change Johns diapers all hours of the day/night, cook, take care of herself (shower, brush teeth, eat). She is tired, and emotionally she is probably going crazy since she just found out her mother is now pregnant. She is totally stressed! And it's not that easy to just hand over your infant to anyone (their father or not)! She is being over-protective, and that is totally understandable! I was the same way my son was born. Your right...she' not an adult! But, when you become a parent, you have responsibilities and you have to act like an adult. I love the way they are playing out Amy's character (it's realistic)! Pregnancy, birth, parenting, and motherhood are not an easy task...even if you are an adult! Becoming a mother changes every single aspect of your everyday life. You would be stressed to the max too! They are just showing the challenges that she is facing. I think it is spot on!
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I understand that she's going to be unhappy with her life, but there's absolutely nothing she can do about it. She chose to have sex, go through with the pregnancy, and keep the baby- she has to live with it. But her character is way too over the top on the bitchiness. The way she speaks to Anne is disgusting, if I was her I would have kicked Amy out to go live with George a long time ago. I certainly wouldn't put up with it. The way she treats Ben too, he should have dumped the little snot a long time ago. It's time for her to grow up, take responsibility, and be a woman, not a spoiled child who wants everything handed to her.
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Seriously. She talks to Anne as if it's just one of her classmates and not as a mother. If I was Anne I would have been smacked the mess out of Amy. And I don't like Ben's character at all but I don't like the way he's being treated by her. Even though he's annoying he does try to be a good boyfriend and I will be happy when he dumps her as well and I know he will. Either that or she'll dump him. Yeah I'm sorry you're a teenage mother but you had the chance to get an abortion, you didn't take it. You had a chance to put the baby up for adoption and you didn't take that either. No one can say that Amy had to keep the baby.
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I'm kinda on the fence with her. I mean yeah, you need to sympathize for her because she's a new mother and has to balance school, work, a kid, family, and a horny boyfriend. But she chose that lifestyle, you know? She could have given the kid up for adoption-- but she didn't.
It also kinda bothers me that she thinks she's an adult just because she is a mother. She still needs to grow up.
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She did want to put John up for adoption, but after Donovan & Leon backed out, she decided not to go through with it, and Ricky didn't want him adopted from the start. It is REQUIRED BY LAW that if the
Father is a citizen, then the Father MUST consent by signing the papers. If he does not, the adoption cannot go through.
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I am not aganist her, I just hate how she whines and refuses help at the sametime. EIther let people help you or stop whinig.
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i totaly agree
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Totally agree. I mean I'm sure if any of us here had a baby while being a teenager than we would not be all smiles and happiness. We would be snappy, we would be grumpy, we would be total b!tches. Amy probably gets little to none sleep, which might explain why she's so nasty. Also going to school, getting homework done, going to work, and having to take care of a baby is a lot.
I think Amy is so snappy with Ricky is because it's not like he has to wake up at 2 am and feed or change the baby. And even though he offered it was just to make Ben mad. Plus it would be a little uncomfortable for her to have Ricky watching her sleep. Although, I think that when George came over and cleaned and everything was unrealistic. Amy does need to learn how to do that stuff on her own.
But besides that I have no problem with Amy's character since she's acting like a real teenage mom. I'm glad to know some people understand this.
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Yes exactly shes a new mom! give her a break!
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I absolutely agree!
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i've never been against her and i like her character. i've never been a mom but i understand why she is really protective but she needs to let ricky take john more
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Okay, I do understand why, its not like I dont. I was never against her. But I aint going to say what I been saying because its just getting repetitive. Lets just say I know shes going through a lot of sh.it lately and yeah its tough for her to do everything, but I do have my opinions
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Postpartum depression anyone?
Idk but I agree with everything you said. People need to shut up and suck it up. It shouldn't bother you so much, it's a show.
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She is just a teenage mother so they should give her a break but that also doesnt allow her to yell and not trust anyone, if she just trusted ppl she would have a lot more help so she could have a break sometimes.
Because she is really annoying and brings the whole show down. They should really remove her character. Along with the baby and all the parents. Instead they should put in a few FBI agents,aliens and a talking turtle.
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I dont know about the FBI Agents and the aliens but I like the idea of the talking turtle (:
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I was like, "No way! That's stupid." Right up until the talking turtle. How can that NOT be awesometastic? I'd watch that over a talking kitchen clean-up aid any day!
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Another person who understands Amy. Yay!
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I like amys character alot!!! I agree shes a new mother adjusting to sleepless nights && all that but eveyone was like abcs making it seem easy for teens to have babies (with her getting a new job with insurence && eveyone helping her out)!! Its like make up ur mind u either think they made it to easy last season && now that there showing that is not u all are complaning!!! Its not suppose to be easy && shes not suppose to be all like yeah i have the best of two worlds i have my bf helping me && the daddy helping me & where gonna live happily ever after!!! She'll get use to it eventually!! Like in the movie Marley && Me how the mom was all stressed out && stuff!!! But she got use it!!! its [filtered word] every new mom no matter what age!!! I mean i know some moms (my aunt to be exact lol) who are in her 30's going to school to get her degree, going to work, taking care of a child && still be bitchy!!! U all said u didnt want it to be easy on her so there showing us that its not easy being a teen mom (&& that shes gonna be bitchy, mean && pretective its what most moms go through) even if u have help from a husbed bf, family!!! I like that shes standing up for her self (yeah in a bitchy way) but before she was all letting other people make the desions for her!!! && Adrain saying that she thinks shes all grown up now that shes a mother well HELLOO she kind of has to grow up now!!! So u all either chose her to be all happy && go lucky like its a walk in the park for all teen moms or have her be bitchy && protective!!! Which one do u all want????
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I think that Amy is still trying to adjust to being a teenage mother and I have nothing against her.
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I agree. Amy's always been one of my favorite characters, and I think the way she's acting is perfectly normal. Just like I think the way Grace is acting is perfectly normal, even though her logic may be a bit off.
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