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Posted Fri, 08/07/2009 - 03:22 — heartbreaker60621iF UR A GIRL WHO HAS HAD HER HEART BROKEN OFR U HAVE A CRUSH ON AN UNTOUCHABLE GUY HER IS THE PLACE TO VENT IT OUT JUST POST AND TALK TO OTHER GIRLS IN THIS FORUM THAT I CREATED. i MAY BE NEW BUT THIS IS A TOIPIC MOST GIRLS LIKE TO TALK ABOUT!!!!!
heartbreaker60621 some what already answered my question but anyways ill put out my problem anyways.
ok well i was asking my friend what it means if a guy makes me smile but i don't really think hes really cute. & she told me that i like him but i don't know it yet. well of course that led her to asking who he was. well being that i'm a nice person i told her. well some how she happen to be texting him right then...some how they met on myspace. anyways well the next day she tells me that he said" if i wanted to to text him. basically from the minute she told me that i knew something was going on. & after only him like 2 text he adds at the end of one of his text so i heard you like me? well i denied it & then he kept asking me so what you think of me. anyways on monday i found out everything my friend told him.
-first he found out 'someone' liked him. 2nd thing i cheer. & 3rd my name (it slipped supposedly(not going to even go there))
well at the time i sat a few seats behind him & then he sat a few rows over & i'm suppose to sit behind him but again being the nice person i am i switched spots with this other guy & now sit right next to him. my friend & the guy have talked a few times since if it matters.
what should i do/have done?
also i am a really shy person. & said should have cause i'm kinda over him now but just wondering.
sorry its long :/
Sounds like your friend was trying to play matchmaker. Don't worry it will all blow over and be forgotten- unless you don't want it to. You can be just friends with a guy and it be nowhere close to being romantic. I'm not saying you can't be friends with a guy and date too. My boyfriend and I are friends that just happen to like each other, so it is possible. Anyways, don't let your friends push you into anything. That should be totally up to you, on your terms, and in your own time.
Sorry double post
Believe it or not, guys can make you smile even if you aren't all that attracted to them. It's called friendship. A lot of my guy friends make me smile, but I'd be completely weirded out if they tried to pull anything (even without the whole being married thing). Romantic relationships are important, but they aren't the only relationships out there for people of opposite sexes.
I hope I don't sound too preachy. As you can probably tell, this is a hot topic for me.
you need to be honest and tell him how you feel and if he really likes you then he will understand if not than he is not the guy for you
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my problem is that i had a boyfriend and we were on and off for years and then i got with an older guy and me and the older guy broke up. i still like the guy i was on and off with but we were never able to make it work. But now he is in love with another girl and i have to see them hug and all that and whenever i walk by she looks at me and hugs him or grabs him or says something just so i notice them together. No one knows i still like him, and she is my exbestie and told me she would never date a loser like him. And i cant tell him what she said because i will sound like the jealous exgf and im not jealous because im happy hes happy, i just wish i didnt have to see it and that i could get another guy because all the guys i talk to are immature. he used to be my best friend but would never let me call him that becasue he would only accept friends and nothing more. we were by eachothers side when we were together and when we wernt adn now we dont talk because of her.
what do i do?
if you are i love with him talk to him abut dont hide ur feelings keepin things bottled up is not good
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my propblme is thatttttt i have confidence and all but i think im ugly and im short too im only 5 ft so if a guy looks at me or someome is checking me out my fren will tell me hes checking me out but somtimes i think okay he prob think "whoa shes butt uglyy"
and im a really independent person like im kinda of the edgy type and the type of person who woudl rather hang out with a huge group of her frens then get all glammed up for a guy but lately i just really wanna boyfren... i have had 3 in the past... and i talked to a lot of guys last year but the sparks just dyed down.... and it didnt go anywhere so idk if thr any way u can give me advice buttt tthats whats on my mind
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what most girls don't understand is that the female body is one of the most beautiful things in the universe. if you have ever read about greek and roman history you would understand that. also just because you don't look like a model doesnt mean your ugly. Most models are not as pretty as cosmo makes them out to be. My mother-in-law is a heavy set woman and i think that she is beautiful. Don't worry about the way you look when you find the right guy then he will think you are beautiful even when you feel ugly.
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If you want to talk boys, go to the "Secret Life of the American Teenager" board. Tons of girl/boy talk there.
you guys should have some stuff to say seeing school has strated fresh with new guys let those guy troubles be spilled here'
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if your friend has known her friend longer than the boyfriend and they really do lie each other than tell her to gently break up with her current boyfriend because her friend would know her more than anything and that is more than enough to keep up a relationship cuz you guys have been so close
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cassie i would like to be you? i wanted to met you.
Ok i have 2 problems.
A. Theres this guy i really like who is always sending me mixed signals, but then he went out with my kinda enemy at school. But then they broke up and he is sending me mixed signals again. But the one time i asked him out he rejected me
B. Theres another guy at school who wrote an essay for english about someone who changed your life about me. then after the essay he totally started ignoring me, except to be really mean to me.
And my friend who is with me now wants me to post her question too.
So she has a boyfriend, and a friend who likes her and she really likes him, but she doesnt want to break up with her current boyfriend, even though she likes the friend more then the boyfriend. then she has her best friend's boyfriend and two other people who like her alot as well.
lacey+middleman
Wendy + Tyler
Amy + Ricky
Kat+Patrick
Bianca+Cameron
Kailey + Carter
Emily +Damon
Did he have to read the essay out loud? He's probably just embarrassed. Did you ask him why he wrote about you? That would be my first question.
Hi my name is amanda and i am the creator of this forum and i am going to tell my guy problems.
Ok so there is this boy who was in my class i dont know if he likes me me but we kissed one day after school and he has grabbed my but twice. The only problem is that he doesn't even pay attention to me in school except to insult me. What should I do?
The second is there is another boy in my school and he kissed me also and he is two years old going to be a junior this year and im sure he likes me because he said i am is second choice for homecoming if his friend doesn't want to go with him. What should I do? And the last boy he has friends who are 18 who live next door to me and he is always at their house and i have kissed him thrice. The only problem is i think all he and the last guy wants is to get in my pants but like this guy an d i like the first guy i talked about. What should i do please help me?
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This is my advice from reading your situation. Guy1 - totally have had guys like that, trust me I was in the same position 6-8 months ago and I can honestly tell you that he just wants to get in your pants or get a lil sumthn sumthn if you know what I mean. So deff don't waste your time girl. Guy2 - seems like a cool guy, I think it would kinda start out a little bit laidback or iffy but I would try to run with it (maybe step up in the flirt department). Guy3 - not much info about him but since you are saying or realizing that he wants to get in you pants I would stay clear. My pick is go and see what Guy2 is about maybe it can start something. But whatever you don't fall into the hit it and quit it guys cause no girl likes that done to them or the awkwardness after. Hope I was of some help. Tell us who you pick!
Maybe he is shy and unless you have already done so you should make the first move try with maybe a study date that may work
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ok well heres my situation..im going into 7th (young i know) and i really like this guy. but in 4th grade, we hated each other. a few weeks ago i went to this school orientaion thing, and i sat next to him. (there were no more seats
) so i wasnt going to talk to him, but he started talking to me. we flirted and stuff and after it was over, we hugged. i didnt know if it was a one time friend thing, so i messaged him on myspace saying "heyy 
whats up?" and he hasnt responded. its been over a week and i know hes been on...so he must have seen it. i dont know what to do! i go back to school tomarrow, should i try to talk to him? or just not talk to him? i dont really know if i still like him...
~Kat+Patrick4ever!!!!~
ok this is an easy one. your in 7th grade no matter what you do your probly not gunna end up w/ this guy anyway so if you like him flirt with him if you don't like him but wanna be friends go that route if you don't ever wunna talk to him then don't.
SoccerCrazy
I'd just be yourself around him and see what happens.
So, I really liked this guy last year, and we did date for a little bit, but because of one moment of silence--and mind you, I'm one of those people who dont find silence awkward--he broke up with me OVER TEXT saying that he needed more time 'for school' which is total BS. Why oh why are there no Patricks at my school? Or even Cameron's will do=P
i really like this guy but he always hides his feelings from me what do i do? HELP!
You know your in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
How does he hide his feelings from you? Is he normally closed off, like Kat and Patrick? Does he show how he feels about other things and just not this? Does he know how you feel about him?
Sorry for all the questions. I'm just trying to understand what you're dealing with.
When i start to talk bout us and our relationship he just stops talking to me and one time he told me he loved me and then he went off with another girl he never really tells me how he feels about me at all i just dont kno wat to do
You know your in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
From that, I would say that he really likes you as a friend but is not ready for anything more. That may change in the future, but for now I'd either content myself with a friendship or move on.
I don't have theses problems because I am 25 and married LOL But my advice is if you like a guy great then tell him but make sure he is not taken because you wouldn't want that happening to you. You will always find the bad apples before you finally get a good one take your time and be patient.
hmmm. . .
well this doesn't work for everybody but usually if i like a guy i've never talked to, i usually ask one of my friends to talk to him for me first to get the dish on what's going on like if he likes me, knows me, wants to talk to me etc.
but if you can have a friend talk to him or something tell one of your friends to tell him to have him talk to you first.
or if you see him pretend to bump in to him, i know people who do that all the time. lol.
or if that doesn't work, a lot of my friends meet the guy they like online like talking on to them on myspace and after awhile if you've talk to him, say hi to him around campus or something.
like i said, it doesn't always work.
do you have any classes with him? does your sis still talk to him?
sorry just trying to help.
trust me there are only a few decent guys in my area!! most of the people that go to my school are creepers and scary or compleate perverts! i hate it when guys are always trying to shoot stuff down your cleavage!! it's annoying and gross
well at least you guys can find someone where you live.
in my area, the only good-looking guys here are:
gay. taken. or in hiding. lol
it [filtered word]!
this past year i have had a crush on this guy who is a year older than me(a senior this year) and i hear that he is really nice but i never have the nerve to talk to him cause we hang out in different circles...i'm the shy type until i know people well enough and he is the sports type...even though i do play FH. but my sis talked to him in lunch last year and he said he though i was cute...but he has never talked to me. anyone have any advise??? i'd love to hear it!
What I would do and it hasn't failed me is take some time and observe see who he talks to and find out who his good friends are then...start talking to his friends (in a non flirty way) but get to know them basically become buddies with his buddies and before you know it you will interact with your crush and since everybody is friends it will be a cool, laidback kind of thing and eventually you will find out if is a green for go and make your move or red for ok he's cool and all but its better just to be friends. I know it sounds weird but it's worked for me just remember to have a good personality, be your self, and don't run into a door while your talking to him (yeaa embarassing but i did that with my current bf)
I'd go to one of his games and find a way to start talking to him afterward. Even if it's just a simple, "Good game," and a smile it will start a connection.
Needing to put my venting/opinion out there in high school I met this boy and I thought he was super cute plus he was super popular anyways we went out, it was a hard relationship we always fought and I found out that he cheated on me when I went to the beach with my best friend and her family for a week...lets say never doubt a southern girls revenge and I got one of my friends who was on the varsity football team to key his pretty little beamer but heres a happy story I now have a WONDERFUL AMAZING boyfriend now we met in one of our college classes,never thought we would ever talk but one day our professor put us in group together and ever since then...he's been my world
OK I feel like venting a little bit
I'm in high school and I have a friend who I've known for a pretty long time. None of my friends have ever talked to him and they always laugh when I tell them I like him. He reminds me a lot of Patrick Verona except......he's not very cute. I have this thing towards seeing the personaltiy of guys and blocking out their appearence.
If you like him, that's all that matters, don't care about what your friends think. Plus, if they've never talked with him, then they don't know him, so it's senseless they laugh. They should give him a chance to know him better. And if they are good friends then they'll support you and want you to be with the guy you like.
if ya'll want to keep postin feel free
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ok so i turn 16 the 19th and i'm like so unemotional, like keep my distance people but i have lots of friends. and i like this guy who was in my english class last year and he's been in other classes of mine back in middle school and he's so funny, and it looks as if he has the same attitude as me. the problem is i don't want to like him but i can't help it and that i don't go out with people because your in high school and it's just a waste of time once you break up. so i've never gone out with anyone even though i have been asked. and i've never really talked to him, the closest i've been to talking to him was when we were in groups, and i was petrifyed to even say a word even though my friend was in the group to. so i don't konw what to do, because even though i'm a total unemotional person i'm a hopeless romantic and i have no clue what to even say and i don't want it to be obvious that i like him to. my friends have told me to just go up and talk to him but to me that's obvious so please help!
"Now you know how the Earth feels" Kat
"That's funny, typically pretty girls are very good liers" Patrick
"He littered"-Kat "Which apperently triggered some sort of psychotic break"-Patrick
I know what your going through...i just turned 16 a week ago. Just talk to him during class and trust me it will become easier to talk to him outta class...i was in the same situation and it turned out that when i got to know him i found that i didn't like him as much as i thought i did. but we are good friends now. so just talk to him and see what happens
Patrick~You're like the little bear that sales fabric softener
Cameron~They just take a while to drop sometimes
Pat~The soda or your ~~~~~~~~~?
Pat~Yes you can protect her from unwanted internet spam
First, not all high school romances are pointless. I know several people, my in-laws included, who married their high school sweethearts. I know even more that remained very good friends after the romance ended. They don't all bomb out.
Since you have some of the same classes, I would maneuver to be in the same group as he is when people are working on projects. This gives you a way to start talking to him without having to be all flirty. Even if nothing happens, you might gain a real good friend.
well this is strange but who cares i guess I can vent on here since no one knows who i really am. so i turned 16 on August 1st this year and my crush just turned 14 on July 25th this year! he's really mature and he definitely doesn't look his age(
) but i just can't get past the fact that he is my younger brother's age (he's my friend not his though)...and to top it off idt that he feels the same way 
so yea thanks for listening and feel free to comment(as long as you're not insulting me or calling me a pedifile(idk how to spell that)) 
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Patrick~You're like the little bear that sales fabric softener
Cameron~They just take a while to drop sometimes
Pat~The soda or your ~~~~~~~~~?
Pat~Yes you can protect her from unwanted internet spam
Update from Ms.Sweet16...me and my younger man are "talking" now and i don't even notice the age difference anymore...who knows maybe there will be something more but for now we're not allowed to date lol
"Another Party? Woman you're an animal."
"Did your deep-voiced man-boy put you up to this?"
"You. Me. Out. Together. Yummy. Dinner. I'm buying."
"Well Di-ck you better pray that I don't get cramps."
"I'm the energizer bunny for liberty."
~Ms.Sweet16
Congrats on the talking! As for the other, getting to know each other before actually dating isn't all that bad. Besides, it might make you understand Bianca a little better. Anything for the show, right?
haha so use my love life to understand a character on a show that's original lol
"Another Party? Woman you're an animal."
"Did your deep-voiced man-boy put you up to this?"
"You. Me. Out. Together. Yummy. Dinner. I'm buying."
"Well Di-ck you better pray that I don't get cramps."
"I'm the energizer bunny for liberty."
~Ms.Sweet16
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