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Guys = Jerks!!! Cried all day

I havent posted in a while. You know how my boyfriends mom died, yep thats me.

He broke up with me.

Reason- Never liked me only asked me out cuz i liked him. Jerk right. I cried all day. i dodnt want to. im mad at him and he acts like nothing is wrong. How do i deal with it??

dawn4scifi's picture

Maybe he actually did it to be kind to you and give you a chance. He broke it off because it did not work out. One cannot control who one desires. I do not think he was a jerk at all, but tryiing to see. The experts in psychology suggest marrying your best friend.

If you two were good friends, maybe he wanted to see if it could eventually go somewhere. He may just be young, confused and trying to be nice.

It amazes me how much anger is on this forum. Just remember, he may not have been trying to hurt you at all, just be nice.

✝ Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness, and all these things will be given unto you...✝

HopLikeABunny's picture

I would've whooped his a$$ or hell be mature and just get over it. Hell there's plenty of guys to choose from. Just go out with your friends one day and go boy shopping (for fun, not to find a boyfriend, that's just desperate). My friends and I used to do this thing (it's kinda cruel but it's fun). We would go shopping, get boys numbers and later on that day prank call them for the hell of it. It makes you feel so much better when you're going through that boy-hating stage.

He got big brown eyes, so he look nice
Coming on strong, six pack showing
He's too cool, for his own shoes
Nothing rude, but way too sure for me
-Aaliyah

xChorusOfAngelsx's picture

Tell him exactly how you feel and how insensitive and a-holeish it was to do that to you. Then forget about him. You certainly have time to find much better.


"I was electrified by your eyes
as they froze..."