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Ricky attempts to sabotage the adoption, while Ashley tries to convince Ben to return to Amy.

this episode will be available only on the following dates: Monday, February 16th 2009 - Friday, January 1st 2010

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jessipoo's picture

aww ben matured soo much! i love this episode..
ricky is a loser i hate him! and im so proud of adrian and qrace for iqnorinq him.. and adrian and her step-brother are so cute toqether! im so happy that adrian qave him a chance(: and ashley took charqe in this episode..im qlad she did because amy and ben finally worked their problems out. and on one part amy was really beinq a brat she was over explodinq the situation..but i'm qlad they are talkinq aqain ; and i hope amy keeps this baby...i would really be disappointed Wink

cawrestlermoto's picture

Dood ben seems so much more mature nowww

meadowmuffinz's picture

Amy & Ricky DO NOT need to date, you're all so blind, and the stupidity makes me laugh. JUST BECAUSE he got her pregnant, doesn't mean that they're perfect for each other. it DOES NOT mean they should be together, Ben suits Amy just fine, but i definatley think they're all too young to be talking about marrriage and being together "forever".
Anywho, they shouldn't be together.
They should stay friends, and work together on taking care of their baby, just not in a relationship.
none of them know what love is.

ELP♥JLH
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Heart eyes I love ricky

ILoveeMe

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Heart eyes I love ricky

ILoveeMe

Maddi_73's picture

Ricky and Amy need to to datee. I love ricky, hes HELLA hott. (:

Maddi (:

Lauren42's picture

this show is way over dramatic and unrealistic at times but i still love it! Wink

kylexylover122's picture

I love this episode. I love Ben in this episode, he shows how much he really cares for Amy.

Save Kyle XY!!!!
Kyle and Amanda<3
I<3 Kyle XY

laurenfrees1's picture

I hate ben.

Lauren

Lauren42's picture

haha me too

iBlack_Rose's picture

Ben+Adrian! Grace+Jack! AMY+RICKY!!! Ashley... should laugh at them. Ashley the immortal!

Just shut up and watch the movie! o.e

wondersueak's picture

Amy, Ben, and Ricky are caught up in a fricken messed up love triangle. Amy should get together with Ricky and Ben should get the hell out of her life. Vampire Vampire Vampire Vampire Vampire

♫Angela♫

emilyaw52's picture

ben is annoying an clingy and creepy. he has no business in amy and ricky's baby's business.

he's just trying to fill the gap of his moms death

booie's picture

Guys like Ricky are losers and will always be losers he will grow up saying welcome to mcdonalds can i help you?

AngeliqueM.S.W1991's picture

I think Ben is allowed to feel what he wants to feel yeah everybody thinks it's impossible to fall in love at the age they are at but we aren't them it's what they feel what he and amy feels. They'll get to make that decision on there own but until then if saying that they love each other is the only way they can express how they feel for each other then that's their deal. And Ben can express his love how ever he'd like Amy obviously doesn't mind.

ANGEL&ELL4EVER

izzyrocks11's picture

WOW!!!! Ricky loves Amy!!!! i only want Ricky and Amy together if..... Ricky can get a job and support the family!!!!

coolio101's picture

OMG!!!! RICKYY LOVESS AMYY AWEEEEEE....... Smiling

coolio101's picture

omg rickyyy lovesss amyy aweee.... but amyy iss in love with ben but idkkk.... she is sooo confused hopfully she can figure it outt!!!!Smiling ilov Heart eyes eddd thiss episode

coolio101's picture

omg rickyyy lovesss amyy aweee.... but amyy iss in love with ben but idkkk.... she is sooo confused hopfully she can figure it outt!!!!Smiling ilvoeddd thiss episode

coolio101's picture

OMG!!!! RICKYY LOVESS AMYY AWEEEEEE....... Smiling

SuperS's picture

I think that Ben is the right guy for Amy because he loved her from the start. So what if Ben is a little clingy and nerdy but he still loves her.

Did I forget to mention that I love Ben!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AshleyBurris's picture

Wow Ben is an awazing guy!! Smiling

ashley burris

starry_198916's picture

i loved this episode!! Angel it was soo cute!

D<3W

Charly09's picture

I hate living in England i cant see the episode i wanna see i can only see previews this is really annoying me urrrrggghhhhh!!

sairosar's picture

I think its sweet that Ricky has gone through all these changes. It has truley ade him better and We get to see finally that he respects her and doesnt take her as a joke anymore. Hes aware of the many ways he has hurt her. im touched. lol

angel86's picture

these ppl are 15 and in love. the parents are freaking idiots. yeah support your child but umm know when enough is enough and things have gone to far. missing school because your child was dumped. negative. not when i was that age. my step sister had 2 scares when she was in high school. even while on the pill. i'm the show has a somewhat realistic concept. but ben makes it unrealistic. no 15 year old sane boy would be willing to stay with someone who is pregnant with another guys' kid. well not even a man would do that. in real life, stuff like that can break up homes. look at the people on maury.

kylexylover122's picture

That's not true. Maybe, theres a sane boy out there that would stay with someone who is pregnanta with another guys' kid. Maybe, you dont think so, but there could be.

Save Kyle XY!!!!
Kyle and Amanda<3
I<3 Kyle XY

whitetiger_0603's picture

Then you haven't been with a real man. my husband, my 2nd husband, loved me from the start. Regardless of the fact that my divorce was still a year pending and i had 2 kids, he loved...loves me. Heck, i know for a fact that he loved me for my girls, Ben finally got smart. He's still has a bit more to learn, but he's getting there. This episode just basically said, that a man doesn't have to be the blooded father to love his woman's children. And it reinforced Mine and my husbands relationship, he loves my girls unconditionally as though they were his, and has even made it very clear that were anything to happen to us, his step daughters were still gonna be taken care of as though they were his, child support and all, though I feel that's wrong for him to do. Ricky can still be in this baby's life if he so chooses, despite who Amy is with, Ricky has rights. And whomever Amy is with will have to understand that. Ben finally understands that, and that's a start. In the end, it is Ricky and Amy's final decision as to where the baby goes, and if Ben wants to be with Amy, he needs to be there to support her, despite his feelings for this baby and what he wants. Unless he can somehow find a fabulous job to support them all, this is Amy's life, and the baby's at stake. And with the family craziness going on, that baby needs a stable home, and Amy can't provide that. Ben has to support her and her needs, not his, in this delicate situation, not try and persuade her to do something that can go against hers, and the baby's overall well being.

curlylove's picture

please shut up. u never kno some 15yr boy would proably want to stay with a grl who is pergant by another guy there are people out n the wrld like that. and missing skool because of an break up is wrong but she's going through enough at such a young age and she has to make all these decisions her dad ways just trying to make her feel better and cheer her up. and not evry couple that went on maury broke up.....if u don't like my comment well NEWS FLASH I DIDN'T LIKE YR EITHER No comment Mad

sassycheerbabe's picture

umm that is not true i know a girl that is pregnent and she is with a differnt guy and they are engaged. so maybe some guys dont want a girl that is ganna be haveing a nother guys kid but there are some out there that do

Trinity

britto106's picture

Does anyone know where else i can watch this? the finale is soon and i haven't seen 18-20! Help!
oh and i think ricky and amy should be together<333 ; ]

-BrittneyJane

lindz92485's picture

it says this episode is supposed to be available march 23, 2009. IT IS MARCH 23, 2009!

Harley Davis's picture

when is 18-20 going to be available? this is the only place i can watch this.

Harley Davis's picture

Crying Big cry Mad

pandabear4life's picture

AHH so I have been watching this entire series on here because I can't watch it on TV and Now I can't get 18 or 19 to work! And I NEED to watch them before I watch the others! Does anyone know another place online I can watch them?

alilmama895's picture

you can look on utube

Lilyogini's picture

OMG!!!! where else can i watch it.

<3 Lilyogini <3

geagle16's picture

Mad Mad Mad why cant i watch ep. 17-19. none of them are showing available to view. Does anyone know any other web, or page i can go on to, to watch it.

AnalyLee's picture

Okay, seriously, i would like to watch ep. 17-19. but none of them are available right now. Does anyone know any other web, or page i can go on to, to watch it. I really want to watch it. Thanks Muchie Smiling

sillylittlelinds's picture

Wink i find that if the videos arent working that if i comment someones comment then it wors so if it [filtered word] comment someones comment Angel Angel :Smiling :Smiling

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carapetree's picture

ok.. im commenting your comment so i can watch lol Smiling thanks for letting me use your comment! lol

theyetzter's picture

I really hope this works! Thanks! Big smile

annaaabell's picture

Gasp ricky and amy should go out.. and adrian and grace should hook up.. lmao

i <3 danny

momof2kids_08's picture

lol grace is nice enough but shes not stupid enough to go out with a girl. not sure who is thats just perverted lol duh.

i hope amy and ricky stay together but then again i like ben and amy together. i have to wait til today later to watch last night's episode. i am excited to see it!

mz.grumpy's picture

i love this show but ben and amy are so unrealistic and they"feel in love" way to soon, they started saying i love you after they barely meet!

lasara1983's picture

I do think that Ricky is trying to be a better person. Smiling I'm not all that sure about his feelings for Amy but I do think that he does care about the baby an that he does want to be there for Amy & the baby. He's trying to be the father figure that he didn't have. Wink We'll see... And Amy needs an attitude adjustment Secret

shinexonn31's picture

i totally agree with youuu!!!!! Smiling
even though im not totally sure either about his feelings for amy, i still want them to be together!
amy&ricky forever! <3

"Beneath the makeup and behind the smile I'm just a girl who wishes for the world."
~Marilyn Monroe~

LadySagittarius90's picture

I love Ben. who cares if he's nerdy, wouldn't you rather have someone who loves you this much. with people like Ricky, there's no guarantee that he would stay with you and love you for the rest of your lives, and that he wouldn't cheat on you. He's saying he loves Amy but why is he calling Adrien and Grace?? for those of you who wants Ricky and Amy together, do you think Ricky will stay with her and not hurt her, and do you think he really loves her...he said he loved Grace but now he's saying he loves Amy...soon he could be saying he loves some other girl. Ben is great. How many guys can you find like him who would love someone this much even after getting pregnant by someone else. Amy is lucky to have Ben and she should take him. She'll be happier with him.

JasperCullen's picture

I need 2 see the last episode......i didnt get 2 see it,it [filtered word]. Mad This was a pretty crazy episode. Grace is smart; shes against sex until shes married, if she did want to have sex its SAFE sex, shes christian and just, shes smart! OKAI? I would really hate ashley if she tried getting Ben back 2 me, hes a Nerdy boy, i would rather be with Ricky then Ben.....Ricky is HOTT! Heart eyes Hmmm.....what else? Oh yeah! Amy; shes good, but i would keep my baby, i would NEVER put my baby up for adoption no matter how young, And Amy and Ashley's parents; they need to get back together and help Amy out, i mean seriously......

well love y'all!

-*Cassidy

snoborder137's picture

ok im a guy and i LOVE this show!! i watch it every week and its amazing

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