ABC Family: The Secret Life of the American Teenager What Have You Done to Me?

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Ben shocks Amy with a question, while Amy makes a decision about her pregnancy.

this episode will be available only on the following dates: Wednesday, July 30th 2008 - Wednesday, July 1st 2009

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CR_01's picture

Ben is so sweet. It is weird that he asked her to marry him, but honestly would would you rather date, Ben, the one who will always be there for you and loves you, or Ricky, the one who doesnt really care about you and sleeps with other girls?

K9_Crazy's picture

Elmo863, it's never a good idea to bring up as heated a discussion as abortion...
My thoughts on episode 5:
*Of course you're not much for grass, Ben...
*I knew the engagement was coming! How insane. I love the corniness of this show.
*Whoa, Ben’s plan is crazy about marrying Amy and calling the child his own.
*Ben, you've offered yet another sign that you're not too bright. The doctor will know how many weeks in Amy is. Everyone will know WHEN she conceived.
*Ricky has a right to know about the baby! The sensitive Ben is now going on a power trip?
*Ricky needs to stop playing Grace.
*I gotta hand it to ABC, the twist about George was actually nicely done.
*You have to have an abortion before a certain number of weeks. The clock is ticking...
*Ashley, surprisingly, is a good sister.
*Why does this happen to all females in TV shows: they start out naturally made up and simply clothed, and by the last episode, they're wearing noticeable makeup and better clothes. Look at Pam and Angela from The Office or Elaine from Seinfeld (though she was transitioning from one era's fads to another). Now Amy.
*Uh, I think the doctor would tell Amy's parents about her being pregnant.
*So Jack thinks Amy is a bad influence on Adrian? That's rather comical.
*Whoa, there's a reason behind Jack's name. Sticking out tongue

~~K9_Crazy~~
Love. Marriage. Sex. In that order.

omg.giggles's picture

omg!!!! This is my favorite show!! I hate ben!! and you cant blame anyone for liking ricky...he is droppppp deaddd gorgeous!!

izzieluv's picture

WHEN WILL AMY TELL HER MOM!!! THEY'LL FIND OUT EVENTUALLY! Either they'll get a bill from the doctor that performs the abortion or she'll start getting pregnant and have a baby one day!!!!

~His Princess~

123Secretlife123's picture

I would be so freaked if I was 15 and my 1st Boyfriend asked me to marry him! Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp

!~Caroline~!

Rebecca17's picture

Gasp i know me two which i don't have a boyfriend but so what?

Rebecca Welberg

AmynRicky4Ever898989's picture

Big smile One of the funniest quotes from this show is "Who would want to have sex with dad if they didn't have to?" Haha!!

diva6071's picture

Big smile It is funny when ben says " Well your my hor ".

6thGradeIsFinallyhere

bonvoyage10122's picture

... wow... ben's a freak -_______-
Puzzled

coolvae123's picture

wow ben is so dumb and anoying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

jacob is cuter than edward
so im guessing...yeah team jacob!!!

asjkbbffs's picture

i love this show so much! I like Grace even though sometimes she is kinda annoying she is cool. BEN IS A TOTAL CREEPINATOR! OMGGG HAHHAAHAH HIS ADAMS APPLE IS SOOOO BIGGG!!!

secret_life_freak's picture

VOTE NOW WHO IS BETTER LOOKING AMY OR ADRIAN!! I VOTE ADRIAN!! Big smile Big smile Big smile Big smile Big smile

{AMY=Ben}

LincolnHeightsLover001's picture

Amy! ( I am st8. jus think that Addriene dresses too Slutty.)

I Love Charles Antoni!!!

iloveerickyunderwood3's picture

ahahahahhahahahah he does have a big adams apple
lmaooo

AMICKY <3333

Ricky: "Amy. I'm interested in Amy."
Amy: "When someone likes you, you can't really help but like them back."

*Ricky: "Hi, John. Daddy's here...I love you."

ABCFAMILY: pleaseee put these two together!

dreambug210's picture

Ben doenst know what love is. He is so annoying.

ldsportschic's picture

OMG!!! i am friken mad this wont let me watch the secret life i am sooo pist i cant watch a single show!!!! Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad Mad

Elmo863's picture

I'm not trying to convince anyone out of there opinion, however these are my views of the show! For one Amy & Ben are not in Love this is each of there first bf/gf and they do not know what love is, second and this is my opinion and my opinion only, an unborn baby has a heartbeat, therefor it is classified as living, is a fact, and it is inedvertent. Having an abortion is murder, you are killing a living thing, that has done nothing wrong, it has no faults, it did not choose to be born. The parents of the baby are responsible, they are the ones who gave this baby life, therefor it is their responsibilty to take care of the baby. The only way that I think that abortion is even considerable, is if health complications make it so the mother AND the child may die in child-birth. Other wise you make the choice, to not have protection, to do it, etc..............

vkwillis's picture

if u can't watch bucuz it [filtered word] try using firefox which u can download for free instead of internet explorer. firefox is better at screening videos.

courtneyboolove's picture

omg ben is so pushy Big cry

you are cutee.
xoxo

i.love.ben.boikavich.'s picture

Heart eyes Heart eyes omg i am so in love w/ ben he is major cute and sensative ufff Heart eyes Heart eyes

-mrs.boikavich.lol

kitkat19988991's picture

she dosnt wana have the baby so she shouldnt

luv ya

kitkat1998's picture

I watched every episode in a day

akme sure to watch every new secret life bye

Concern on programming's picture

My concern is your policy on infomercials, I have watched this man on your channel that is known as a scammer for his products. His name is Jeff Paul, Computer products, what is your policy on these types of infomercials? Do you check them out on Google first, before allowing them on your channel to sale their wares?

Ohio_girl's picture

Abortion is a personal option and it's not fair that other people criticize people going through that situation. They don't know how it happen so it's really none of their business. If the girl slept around all the time then yes they kind of deserve it but if it was her first time or she was like raped or something its her choice.

lauren_faulknerr.'s picture

i just started watching this show last night. ive watched almost every episode online and im waiting for the new season to premiere. i love this show!

-laurenn.

Samiejo's picture

Amy would never really find a real guy like that.a real guy would never marry a girl who was having another guys kid.

elisabethann's picture

not true! i know a couple of guys that have married a girl whos pregnant, or even had already had the baby, and it wasnt his. real MEN are like that.

shes_your_cocaine's picture

samiejo's comment is right. seriously, there's maybe a .1% chance that a guy will actually do this and at 15 it'd be pretty shocking if even the father of the kid wanted to marry the girl. and i hate how this show represents abortion. at 15 it'd be her best option but the show doesn't even allow her the opportunity to choose for herself. if you're pro-life and disagree with me, all i'm saying is that abortion is represented terribly here (excuse me, but isn't roe v wade still in place anyway?) and you don't have to get an abortion but others should have the right to choose for themselves... even if they are characters on a tv show haha

Netherwinder's picture

I don't think that is being very fair at all. He's in love with her. Love is a powerful thing. I am sorry if you haven't found it yet. I wouldn't let that stop me either. You need to have more faith in some men, not all, but some of us are Okay. We're not all out to get you, you know.

alliwells's picture

actually there are. I got pregnant at 15 my first time and I found a really great guy who was there for the whole pregnancy and proposed when my daughter was 2 months. We've now been together for almost 6 years and married for 3. Don't have such little faith in people.

uncles_lil_angel's picture

thats horrible to say yes they would! if that guy really does love you he wouldnt care.

charmelic's picture

ABORTION!!!!
don't ever belive in that crap
it hurts people it doesn't help!! Big cry Big cry Big cry Gasp Gasp Gasp Gasp Crying Crying Crying Mad

maypunkin15's picture

This is my very first comment and I luv this show. And January is way to long to wait I wish they would give us a preview at least of what is gonna happen but oh well, this show rocks.

mcdo1994's picture

oh my gosh this is the first seres i have liked on abc and i have to wait till january to see the next one i just can't wait that long watching the old episodes over and over will get boring but if you haven't already check out episode 1 they did not show that one i do not think

sexiiskittels's picture

i so tollay love this show i onlii have 1 question is amy really pregnet in real liife after this season is finish and amy has the baby they have a season 2 of her raising the baby that will be aswome i will looovvveee it!!!!☆³.·•MG•·.☆³ ☆³.·•MG•·.☆³ ☆³.·•MG•·.☆³

brittv95's picture

dude if u watch the back stage videos it says that she is wearing a fat suit(pad) to make her look pregnit

brittany vargas

bakeec's picture

...OK, well this "break" has turned into at least 3 weeks now... ABC Family should take some advice from ABC Parent Company (all of their online episodes are loaded quickly, they all work -and work faster, not to mention, they don't waste their time with these little "clips") --does anyone even waste their time with "clips?" lol ...All I'm saying, ABC Family, is either have the episodes available online or don't... one or the other! Smiling Furthermore, don't list the episode unless is is actually available or can "be found" --i just tried to click on an episode of Greek that "couldn't be found" ?? Funny.

Samantha_Hicks's picture

When are some of the episodes going to be on here? I'm lost now. Is there anywhere else I can watch episodes 5-7?

w1ckedgurl4ever's picture

i'm trying to catch up before the next show on tuesday, but i can't watch this one because the range is from 2008-2008 instead of 2009. i have to know what happens!!!!!!!!

Mandyppaz21's picture

Ok I was in the same situation amy was in when she was younger. I had sex with a guy and he was a marine, but also a real nasty [filtered word] jerk. My best friends told everyone in school and I was embarassed at first. But than I met my husband, He never told anyone and he was a year older than me he was 16. He told everyone it was his child, we also got married and we went to high school together. My dad had passed and we lived off my inheritance. But i never once regretted it. I am proud that there are men out there who would do anything like my husband did for me. And that is what this show reminds me of. We are now living happily ever after 5 years of marriage and 3 kids later, we are still so in love. I do think Amy needs to tell her parents, And it is wonderful that ben wants to be there for her. They would do good together. I think Amy should accept. And as far as Ricky he wouldn't make a good dad or husband he is to wild and doesn't seem like he would ever want to settle down. Ben would be perfect.

Mandy

tink4u's picture

(Smiling this is a great show i hope monday is better

tink4u

thesecretlifeoftheamerteen's picture

Wink hey gurlie..i know rite!!..it wouldd beeh so amazingly nice if Ben WOULD STOP pressuring Amy into something she really doesn't want to do at this young age. I just wish Amy and Ben would become the best of friends, and She goes out with Ricky, cuz he could maybe; shockingly change HIS WAYS!!..well HOPEFULLY!..by thew way.. i just adore thiss show, it's awesome..ohh and i HOPE AMY and BEN DON'T THINK BOUT GETTING MARIIED!!..i will flip!

"Secret Life" Amy&Ricky!<3
"Kyle XY" Kyle&Amanda!<3(SAVE THE TUB!!!)

amykeepyourbaby1985's picture

so what your saying is that just because jack is her boyfriend he has a RIGHT to have sex with her? its HIS choice? uh WRONG!! it is her decision if she wants to obstain...if she believes its wrong to have sex before marriage then GOOD FOR HER..if she chooses to have sex with him it should be because SHE wants to, not because shes pressured into it

Harry <3 Ginny
Jess <3 Rory
George <3 Ann

-The-Secret-Life-'s picture

Ricky's just using Grace. he is so mean...but adrian is my favorite character....

bbreezy0926's picture

Abortions are not murder. The fetus has to have a heart beat before it is considered murder and that's why they wont let you do it after a certain amount of time. Every girl has the right to choose how would you feel if someone took the right to choose something about your life away?

junebby25's picture

OK so maybe ben isn't realistic for a 15yr old. I don't care what you guys think he's pretty sweet. Amy needs to tell her mom asap! She needs to get an abortion if she wants too. Grace needs to grow up! Its ok to be a christian but she needs to stop bein so soft. Jack is a jerk for mouthing off to grace. And Ricky needs to stop being such a man-.

MaddyMoo55's picture

in really do love this show. i think its great. i feel bad 4 amy and the decision she has 2 make. i know that it is a tough one. but shell do the right thing in the end. and ben stepping up to the plate for her is so sweet. there needs 2 be more guys like that in the world. ricky is a jerk and i dont see why grace even likes him...tho probably not so much now. he and amy should definitely NOT date...even if he is the father. ben is a much better guy and i dont think ricky would care for amy or the baby like ben would. i also cant believe that amys father just left. what a JERK! i think that theyll get back together eventually though....im hoping at least.

ShawtyBabe's picture

Well I am off to bed. I have a big day tomorrow. For all of those who havent seen it... Have fun and I hope you enjoy it. =D For those of you who have... Attempt not to ruin it for the rest of them. =P Goodnight all. I will be posting my thoughts next Tuesday. =D

summersmom's picture

I don't think that Amy should marry Ben because its not his baby. Plus, she don't need anymore problems at this point.

taylor11's picture

I think she should get an abortion, instead of runining her life. and getting married? that is insane

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